Self-Awareness and Emotional Intelligence - Ashley Snowball Part 1

WEBVTT 1 00:00:03.560 --> 00:00:07.280 Hey, Dr g here. Thank you for listening to moving up stream without 2 00:00:07.320 --> 00:00:11.119 a paddle. I would like to work with businesses, authors, coaches and 3 00:00:11.119 --> 00:00:15.960 the like who understand the importance of shifting perspectives to obtain the results we're looking 4 00:00:15.960 --> 00:00:19.800 for. And please to announce that moving up stream without a paddle is now 5 00:00:19.839 --> 00:00:24.920 offering commercial spots to be aired during the episodes. If you believe your organization 6 00:00:24.920 --> 00:00:29.079 would benefit from advertising on the PODCAST, I would love to have you be 7 00:00:29.160 --> 00:00:33.840 a part of this continuously growing show. Let's get connected and inspire the world 8 00:00:33.920 --> 00:00:44.119 together. Hello everybody, welcome back to another show of moving up stream without 9 00:00:44.119 --> 00:00:48.240 a paddle. I'm excited, crazy excited for my guest that I have on 10 00:00:48.280 --> 00:00:53.399 today, Ashley Snowball Um. I have many conversations with this, with this 11 00:00:53.439 --> 00:00:58.079 young woman, and she's such an amazing person. She's a psyche resilient specialist 12 00:00:58.640 --> 00:01:03.960 who uses the world renowned teachings and techniques to help resilient, ambitious women develop 13 00:01:03.079 --> 00:01:10.280 high level of self awareness and emotional intelligence in order to build the unshakable confidence 14 00:01:11.040 --> 00:01:15.480 so that they can turn their pain into power. She believes that when you 15 00:01:15.480 --> 00:01:23.560 you, when you believe in your potential and moving alignment with a high level 16 00:01:23.560 --> 00:01:26.879 of self awareness and emotional intelligence, you will achieve whatever it is you can 17 00:01:26.920 --> 00:01:30.719 conceive. Ashley is she's put in the work right she's a product of the 18 00:01:30.799 --> 00:01:33.799 product. I think this is what I love about her. Right so, 19 00:01:33.879 --> 00:01:38.599 she she has transformed her own life of destructive relationships, addictions, sexual abuse 20 00:01:38.959 --> 00:01:45.159 and violence Um to living a life on her terms, which consists of traveling, 21 00:01:45.239 --> 00:01:49.319 pursuing her music and training all her dreams into reality. She is a 22 00:01:49.359 --> 00:01:53.159 certified life coach who has been trained by, well trained by and study by 23 00:01:53.439 --> 00:01:57.640 some of the great, some of the great, so Tony Robbins, uh 24 00:01:57.079 --> 00:02:01.280 Bob Proctor, Les Brown and more. She's just again, she's a product 25 00:02:01.280 --> 00:02:07.120 of the product and she's always trying to evolve herself in order to better guide 26 00:02:07.159 --> 00:02:09.759 others to be the best versions and live the best lives that they have. 27 00:02:09.879 --> 00:02:15.000 So I'm really excited to have this conversation with Ashley and that is going to 28 00:02:15.039 --> 00:02:20.960 be coming up right after this. Welcome to moving up stream. About a 29 00:02:21.000 --> 00:02:24.240 paddle, the podcast that helps develop a mindset for success. I'm your host, 30 00:02:24.439 --> 00:02:29.719 Dr Garrett Coggins, but most people call me Dr g. Now dedicated 31 00:02:29.800 --> 00:02:34.520 my life to helping others understand that if you have the proper mindset, you 32 00:02:34.520 --> 00:02:39.680 can propel yourself up that proverbial stream with no paddle needing. After constantly feeling 33 00:02:39.719 --> 00:02:44.479 like you're going against the flow, but you're never happy with your results. 34 00:02:44.960 --> 00:02:47.919 It's really time to flip your mindset. If that's something that you're ready to 35 00:02:47.960 --> 00:02:52.439 do, you've come to the right place. Now let's get to it. 36 00:03:07.199 --> 00:03:13.319 Hello, Ashley, Hello, Hi, thank you so much for having me. 37 00:03:14.159 --> 00:03:17.599 It is my pleasure. This is gonna be a really fun conversation. 38 00:03:17.719 --> 00:03:22.520 I just know it in my soul, Um, because I think and I 39 00:03:22.560 --> 00:03:24.280 think there's parts of your story, like we've talked many times, but I 40 00:03:24.319 --> 00:03:29.439 believe there's parts of your story that I'm not even aware of. and Um, 41 00:03:29.560 --> 00:03:31.960 as I told you prior I like to start out this the whole thing, 42 00:03:32.080 --> 00:03:37.719 just come out the gate with putting the spotlight on you and having you, 43 00:03:38.240 --> 00:03:42.000 Um, really tell you know more about what it is you do while 44 00:03:42.039 --> 00:03:44.680 you do it and how you got there. Um. And so, if 45 00:03:44.719 --> 00:03:46.080 you don't mind, if you could just take the mic and just fill us 46 00:03:46.120 --> 00:03:53.159 in on who Ashley is. Yeah, for sure. I definitely resonate with 47 00:03:53.199 --> 00:03:58.520 you so much and I just enjoy our conversations more and more as we unfold 48 00:03:58.599 --> 00:04:02.919 and seeing that renality in so many levels. So, my name is Ashley 49 00:04:03.000 --> 00:04:08.719 Snowball. I am a psyche, resilient specialist, transformative speaker and coach. 50 00:04:09.520 --> 00:04:14.639 And Yeah, I don't even know where to start. Um, life is 51 00:04:14.680 --> 00:04:17.160 a journey, that is for sure. And you know, one thing I 52 00:04:17.199 --> 00:04:21.240 can say is who I am now, I don't even recognize the person I 53 00:04:21.319 --> 00:04:29.399 used to be because things have changed so much, so drastically and so quickly. 54 00:04:30.519 --> 00:04:34.279 And you know, I wasn't always this confident, this bubbly, this 55 00:04:34.839 --> 00:04:39.000 you know. Well, I feel like we've always have parts of it in 56 00:04:39.199 --> 00:04:42.040 us, like I've always been a bubbly person, but I also had a 57 00:04:42.040 --> 00:04:48.560 lot of dark, dark emotion, dark energy and just so lost within myself. 58 00:04:48.720 --> 00:04:54.600 And No, it wasn't until, you know, a near death experience 59 00:04:54.759 --> 00:05:00.639 that really shook me and woke me up to starting to realize who I am 60 00:05:00.720 --> 00:05:06.319 and my my potential. And you know, if I was gonna take you 61 00:05:06.399 --> 00:05:11.439 all back on a little journey back to, you know, when I was 62 00:05:11.519 --> 00:05:16.199 eighteen years old, and I may look young, so that was like a 63 00:05:16.199 --> 00:05:25.439 decade ago, I was gonna say uh Um, but yeah, I was 64 00:05:25.519 --> 00:05:28.800 in a really, really dark place. It was one of the darkest moments 65 00:05:28.800 --> 00:05:31.920 in my life and, you know, going through high school is, you 66 00:05:31.959 --> 00:05:35.800 know, as a teenager, I feel like that's one of the hardest parts 67 00:05:35.839 --> 00:05:40.480 of our life because we're starting to come into who we are. We don't 68 00:05:40.600 --> 00:05:43.959 know who we are. We're trying to find our place in the world. 69 00:05:44.600 --> 00:05:48.639 We have all these opinions and perspectives that are really surrounding us and we're just 70 00:05:48.759 --> 00:05:57.079 trying to navigate. And also the hormones. Our bodies undergoing so many changes 71 00:05:57.240 --> 00:06:01.319 and it's a huge growth spirt in our life and that was a point in 72 00:06:01.439 --> 00:06:05.399 time where, you know, I I really struggled with my confidence, I 73 00:06:05.439 --> 00:06:11.720 really struggled to fit in. I had been betrayed by so many of my 74 00:06:11.800 --> 00:06:16.680 closest friends and I just I lacked a lot of self value, self worth, 75 00:06:17.800 --> 00:06:23.680 and I was easily susceptible to other people's opinions and judgments in there, 76 00:06:24.319 --> 00:06:26.720 you know, the choices that they were making. I was like, oh, 77 00:06:26.800 --> 00:06:30.560 that seems cool, like I want to do that, and I always 78 00:06:30.639 --> 00:06:34.040 kind of followed my own path in some regard, but it was because I 79 00:06:34.079 --> 00:06:41.560 was so eager to be loved and gain acceptance. I did give in to 80 00:06:41.720 --> 00:06:47.839 certain certain pressures at points. And so at this point I had already been 81 00:06:47.879 --> 00:06:57.439 in a few different abusive relationships and they were they really just destroyed my me 82 00:06:57.600 --> 00:07:01.639 internally and just feeling like I was the problem. You know, if if 83 00:07:01.680 --> 00:07:06.879 I didn't do these certain things, if I wasn't, you know, this 84 00:07:08.000 --> 00:07:11.560 person that I thought I was, that these things wouldn't happen to me, 85 00:07:12.480 --> 00:07:18.600 and I had recently just left a relationship that was really toxic. I had 86 00:07:18.680 --> 00:07:25.360 also like ended up in jail and like I just got out and like I 87 00:07:25.399 --> 00:07:30.759 was like literally like I was on bail and just so lost and so confused, 88 00:07:30.199 --> 00:07:33.279 and I had, you know, my mom was just so sick and 89 00:07:33.319 --> 00:07:36.839 tired of dealing with me. Like I was constantly living on my own at 90 00:07:36.839 --> 00:07:41.040 this point, and then, you know, she would take me back and 91 00:07:41.079 --> 00:07:44.959 then I would get kicked out and it was just this cycle of destruction. 92 00:07:45.680 --> 00:07:46.720 And she told me, you know, act like I love you, but 93 00:07:46.759 --> 00:07:49.680 I can't do this anymore. You need to get out as soon as you 94 00:07:49.720 --> 00:07:53.920 can, like you're only here until you get enough money to move out. 95 00:07:55.439 --> 00:08:00.959 And then I ended up meeting this man and I just like head over heels, 96 00:08:01.240 --> 00:08:05.240 he was a bad boy, he was a leader. Everyone just listened 97 00:08:05.279 --> 00:08:09.879 to him. He could in its space and I was just I had never 98 00:08:09.000 --> 00:08:13.759 felt the way I did about him for anyone else. And you know, 99 00:08:13.879 --> 00:08:18.519 months had passed and we were getting into a really serious relationship and then all 100 00:08:18.519 --> 00:08:22.040 of a sudden he asked me to be a stripper, and for me that 101 00:08:22.759 --> 00:08:26.360 literally like I just felt like I couldn't have hit rock bottom anymore, anymore 102 00:08:26.839 --> 00:08:31.759 Um, because it was like here's this man that I'm in love with who 103 00:08:31.840 --> 00:08:37.039 sees me this way, and it really confirmed a lot of the beliefs I 104 00:08:37.080 --> 00:08:39.519 had about myself, that I wasn't valuable, that men only wanted me for 105 00:08:39.639 --> 00:08:46.200 sex, and that just put me on a downward spiral. I ended up 106 00:08:46.279 --> 00:08:52.799 running away. I contacted a pimp in Toronto and ended up pursuing that world. 107 00:08:52.840 --> 00:08:54.279 But I didn't do it with him because I was like fuck you, 108 00:08:54.720 --> 00:08:58.840 like you broke my heart and I could I knew he had too much power 109 00:09:00.039 --> 00:09:03.519 over me because I was in love with him and that I knew that it 110 00:09:03.559 --> 00:09:07.960 would be really it would be an even darker path if I chose to do 111 00:09:07.000 --> 00:09:09.960 it with him. So I ended up pursuing it with somebody where I felt 112 00:09:11.000 --> 00:09:13.159 I had a little bit more control, at least in my eyes, my 113 00:09:13.360 --> 00:09:22.200 mind, and eventually it just it. You know, time passed and I 114 00:09:22.440 --> 00:09:28.759 just MHM, I hit a new level of rock bottom, like the depths 115 00:09:28.799 --> 00:09:35.039 of the ocean, and at that point I just spent a few days crying 116 00:09:35.320 --> 00:09:39.399 in my bed. I was in a basement apartment. I literally like it 117 00:09:39.440 --> 00:09:43.399 was the most ghetto place I had ever lived in, next to the closet 118 00:09:43.440 --> 00:09:48.000 I stayed in before, you know, and like I was in a pretty, 119 00:09:48.039 --> 00:09:54.080 like really dark time and I just was like I can't do this anymore. 120 00:09:54.399 --> 00:09:58.159 And you know, but I didn't know what else to do. I 121 00:09:58.159 --> 00:10:03.919 didn't know how to sustain my life all, I didn't know how I was 122 00:10:03.919 --> 00:10:07.960 going to move forward. I didn't believe that I was capable of anything else. 123 00:10:07.039 --> 00:10:11.639 So I spent a few days there and eventually I pulled it together and 124 00:10:11.679 --> 00:10:16.639 I was I ended up putting together a resume, I contacted an employment agency 125 00:10:16.720 --> 00:10:20.720 and just like got myself two jobs and never looked back. And for me 126 00:10:20.879 --> 00:10:24.440 that was like a huge turning point. But at the same time, nothing 127 00:10:24.519 --> 00:10:31.840 internally changed, just my outward experience changed. So sooner than later I ended 128 00:10:31.919 --> 00:10:37.080 up in another really abusive relationship that don't get me wrong. We had so 129 00:10:37.320 --> 00:10:41.279 much fun, like I loved him. We traveled, we party, we 130 00:10:41.360 --> 00:10:45.600 had like an incredible time, but it was when the dark was dark, 131 00:10:45.639 --> 00:10:52.200 it was hell and you know, and I spent a couple of years with 132 00:10:52.279 --> 00:10:58.080 him and then it got to a point where I ended up having a near 133 00:10:58.120 --> 00:11:05.120 death experience and and for me that was the biggest turning point in my life 134 00:11:05.240 --> 00:11:09.519 because I knew the moment I fell through a floor when I was building, 135 00:11:09.559 --> 00:11:13.600 I was on a construction site and I had fallen through a floor and I 136 00:11:13.679 --> 00:11:20.399 just I couldn't move. I I literally thought I was dying and I in 137 00:11:20.519 --> 00:11:24.440 that moment I just heard my grandfather's voice and he had passed a long time 138 00:11:24.480 --> 00:11:28.559 ago, but, Um, you know, just tell me everything's gonna be 139 00:11:28.639 --> 00:11:33.360 okay. And I just grasped those words so quickly and just repeated that to 140 00:11:33.399 --> 00:11:37.120 myself over and over and over and over again, is that everything's gonna be 141 00:11:37.120 --> 00:11:41.360 okay, everything's gonna be okay. And you know, I ended up going 142 00:11:41.399 --> 00:11:43.799 to the hospital. I spent two and a half months in the hospital. 143 00:11:43.200 --> 00:11:50.000 Had A year recovery, but I knew that that was the game changer, 144 00:11:50.679 --> 00:11:54.759 that if I don't choose to see myself differently, if I don't learn to 145 00:11:54.879 --> 00:12:00.759 love myself, then I'm going to continue these patterns. I ended leaving my 146 00:12:00.919 --> 00:12:03.240 ex I had to move home with my family, I lost my Condo, 147 00:12:03.440 --> 00:12:09.279 I had a broken body, uh broken heart, uh a mind that was 148 00:12:09.440 --> 00:12:18.679 just self sabotaging constantly, and I dedicated that year to change everything, that 149 00:12:18.759 --> 00:12:22.919 I was gonna run, dance, jump out of that hospital and I was 150 00:12:22.919 --> 00:12:28.039 gonna be better than I had gone in there. And that's exactly what happened. 151 00:12:28.159 --> 00:12:35.080 I ended up like like the rehabilitating my body to the point where the 152 00:12:35.120 --> 00:12:39.639 doctors were like Whoa, like, what is going on? Like I had 153 00:12:39.639 --> 00:12:41.279 set goals that were like I was like, I'm gonna be out of here 154 00:12:41.279 --> 00:12:45.720 in three weeks, and they laughed at me. And that's my goal. 155 00:12:46.200 --> 00:12:52.120 I didn't happen, but I was determined to get better. Like I doubled 156 00:12:52.279 --> 00:13:00.879 my physio and all of my healing practices. I just studied the greatest in 157 00:13:00.960 --> 00:13:07.879 the world of mindset and healing and body soul alignment, mind body soul alignment, 158 00:13:07.960 --> 00:13:13.480 and I just I didn't look back and I think that was what made 159 00:13:13.559 --> 00:13:20.399 me grow so much is that I literally left everything behind and focused on what 160 00:13:20.480 --> 00:13:26.080 I truly wanted, and that was healing in all aspects of that word. 161 00:13:26.360 --> 00:13:31.919 And from there I just continued to grow and I ended up, Um, 162 00:13:31.960 --> 00:13:35.080 you know, in another country, living in Asia, where I just took 163 00:13:35.080 --> 00:13:37.600 like after a year of just while it was two years, at two and 164 00:13:37.639 --> 00:13:41.960 a half years. At that point I was just like internally dug up so 165 00:13:43.080 --> 00:13:48.000 much, healed so much, changed my life completely, and then I just 166 00:13:48.080 --> 00:13:50.759 set off for Asia. I was like, I need to just go and 167 00:13:50.919 --> 00:13:56.159 be with all of the information I just obtained, and so I lived there 168 00:13:56.159 --> 00:14:00.799 for almost a year and just connected with the kids and a school that I 169 00:14:00.840 --> 00:14:05.000 had found just during some other travel in my healing journey, and just spent 170 00:14:05.120 --> 00:14:11.440 the time getting to know myself and and aligning with my intuition and and trusting 171 00:14:11.600 --> 00:14:15.600 my voice again, because here I was undergoing so much development, listening to 172 00:14:15.639 --> 00:14:18.399 all these coaches, listening to all these people telling me how to think, 173 00:14:18.679 --> 00:14:22.960 how to heal, how to grow, and then it was like, okay, 174 00:14:22.000 --> 00:14:26.120 but what's my voice? Where's my voice? where? Where is my 175 00:14:26.440 --> 00:14:31.080 truth in all of this? And so it gave me time to just be 176 00:14:31.759 --> 00:14:35.039 and to just connect with myself, and I think that that's the most important 177 00:14:35.080 --> 00:14:41.279 part, is just finding ourselves, our true voice, because we build up 178 00:14:41.399 --> 00:14:48.120 so many walls and so many layers and and lenses and masks as we go 179 00:14:48.240 --> 00:14:54.200 through life to try to navigate and survive that we end up losing sight of 180 00:14:54.240 --> 00:14:56.279 ourselves. And that's exactly what it happened to me, is I had lost 181 00:14:56.360 --> 00:15:01.480 sight of who I was to the point where I was ready to sell myself 182 00:15:01.200 --> 00:15:05.679 or sex in order to live, because I didn't think I was capable of 183 00:15:05.720 --> 00:15:09.960 anything more like that is one of the worst things a woman can do is 184 00:15:11.080 --> 00:15:16.720 to full like give away her body and think that it is it's worthless, 185 00:15:16.799 --> 00:15:20.000 it's we are invaluable and there's no amount of money that can buy us. 186 00:15:20.039 --> 00:15:24.559 There's no amount of money that can tell us who we are or what we 187 00:15:24.720 --> 00:15:28.120 deserve and what we're worth. And when I you know, I don't regret 188 00:15:28.200 --> 00:15:31.960 anything that I've been through because it made me who I am, but I 189 00:15:33.039 --> 00:15:37.279 will never go back to who that person was, um because I know that 190 00:15:37.279 --> 00:15:46.440 that was never me. This is this a pause where you're you're taking a 191 00:15:46.440 --> 00:15:50.600 break here and you want me to interject. Yeah, I just naturally felt 192 00:15:50.600 --> 00:15:56.279 like inclined to stop. I think me and and and the few listeners that 193 00:15:56.320 --> 00:16:00.600 we have on right here are just like engross in the story you right now. 194 00:16:00.200 --> 00:16:04.000 And, uh, well, I think there's a there's a few very 195 00:16:04.080 --> 00:16:08.080 valuable points that we should bring out, and one I feel like a lot 196 00:16:08.120 --> 00:16:14.320 of people, when when we listen most people who I have on the show 197 00:16:14.320 --> 00:16:18.679 and most people who have gone into the work and and has done this transformation 198 00:16:18.759 --> 00:16:22.480 within themselves, it seems like they always have to hit this rock bottom state 199 00:16:22.679 --> 00:16:26.559 first. And I know that was true with my story, is true with 200 00:16:26.720 --> 00:16:30.679 just with many stories, and it gets to this point where, you know, 201 00:16:30.840 --> 00:16:33.879 and I always like to say when you're at that rock bottom place, 202 00:16:34.000 --> 00:16:38.320 like you were saying at the at the ocean floor, there's no other place 203 00:16:38.440 --> 00:16:41.840 but to look up, like you can't go down any further. And once 204 00:16:41.840 --> 00:16:45.799 people recognize that, but I want to bring out that they don't have to 205 00:16:45.840 --> 00:16:49.159 hit the rock bottom spot first. So let's start there, right. They 206 00:16:49.159 --> 00:16:53.440 don't have to get to that point. But we as humans, Um, 207 00:16:53.519 --> 00:16:56.879 you know, we have the programmings that we have and and it's the self 208 00:16:56.960 --> 00:17:02.879 image that you have it yourself it keeps taking you down, down, down, 209 00:17:03.240 --> 00:17:07.000 down until you can stop and shift. And I love the shift that 210 00:17:07.079 --> 00:17:11.799 you went through right and and you started getting to the voices because you're like 211 00:17:12.400 --> 00:17:17.119 enough is enough. You started listening to the voices of all these mentors. 212 00:17:17.839 --> 00:17:21.759 But you said something that I've never actually heard someone say on the show before 213 00:17:22.480 --> 00:17:26.799 or with with clients or things like that. Is what was my voice, 214 00:17:26.000 --> 00:17:30.079 because a lot of times we just take on the voice of these people that 215 00:17:30.480 --> 00:17:34.839 are mentoring us, but we may not realize it, but that also becomes 216 00:17:34.880 --> 00:17:38.039 our voice. We have to say it with our story, with with who 217 00:17:38.119 --> 00:17:41.559 we are and back by our passion and our purpose. So I love that 218 00:17:41.599 --> 00:17:45.200 you brought that out and said, you know, where was mine and so 219 00:17:47.319 --> 00:17:49.400 with that, then, how did you find your voice and what is your 220 00:17:49.480 --> 00:17:53.799 voice and what does that look like for you? Yeah, so, yeah, 221 00:17:55.920 --> 00:18:00.759 great question. I definitely was that person that always in the hard way 222 00:18:00.000 --> 00:18:04.880 for a very long time. And you know, like you said, it 223 00:18:04.920 --> 00:18:08.240 doesn't have to be that way. You know, we we have people that 224 00:18:08.279 --> 00:18:11.519 are always around us telling us, you know, giving us advice, saying, 225 00:18:11.559 --> 00:18:15.640 like I've been through this, you don't want to experience it, like 226 00:18:15.039 --> 00:18:21.359 learn from my mistakes and you know, sometimes we do have to experience things 227 00:18:21.359 --> 00:18:25.279 and learn things on our own. But it's a there's a time where you 228 00:18:25.359 --> 00:18:29.119 have to realize, like, how much are you going to allow yourself to 229 00:18:29.200 --> 00:18:37.559 suffer and continue to choose what you know not to do just to experience it? 230 00:18:37.720 --> 00:18:41.920 Like there, it's not always worth it. And so, yeah, 231 00:18:41.960 --> 00:18:48.519 I think it's so important to really come back to our truth and to you 232 00:18:48.559 --> 00:18:52.680 know, we have our own inner guide. We we have a a straight 233 00:18:52.759 --> 00:18:57.880 connection to our highest self and we all have that. It's our soul on 234 00:18:57.920 --> 00:19:00.680 a level that we don't even know, and whatever that looks like for you, 235 00:19:00.759 --> 00:19:07.680 we all have that and you know it's there's you always have that gut 236 00:19:07.759 --> 00:19:11.039 feeling before you do something, or that urge to like go left, but 237 00:19:11.079 --> 00:19:14.599 you choose to go right. It's like, but that first instinct, if 238 00:19:14.599 --> 00:19:18.160 you went left, you would have avoided x, Y and Z, had 239 00:19:18.200 --> 00:19:22.039 you have listened to that initial instinct. And and especially like as a, 240 00:19:22.680 --> 00:19:26.799 you know, a woman who's experienced a lot of trauma and abuse. Men 241 00:19:27.000 --> 00:19:33.519 Too, it doesn't just go one way. We tend to stop trusting ourselves 242 00:19:33.920 --> 00:19:40.319 because we I feel like we always end up in a really bad situation right, 243 00:19:40.559 --> 00:19:42.720 or the other person tells us we're wrong. You know, we get 244 00:19:42.720 --> 00:19:48.319 told that we're you know, that's not right, you're stupid. I wouldn't 245 00:19:48.359 --> 00:19:51.640 do that. And, like we just we start to question our own self 246 00:19:51.799 --> 00:19:57.759 and we start to listen to everything else but ourselves. And in order to 247 00:19:57.839 --> 00:20:02.759 come back to that truth, you have to start to get to know yourself. 248 00:20:02.799 --> 00:20:06.960 And that's really why I say that in order to live the life you 249 00:20:07.000 --> 00:20:11.279 want, in order to truly be fulfilled, you have to have a develop 250 00:20:11.279 --> 00:20:15.920 a high level of self awareness and emotional intelligence, because when you have a 251 00:20:17.400 --> 00:20:22.519 high level of awareness, you're able to almost step outside of yourself and see 252 00:20:22.559 --> 00:20:26.839 how you're operating and why you're operating the way that you're operating. And when 253 00:20:26.839 --> 00:20:36.720 you're able to do that, you start to recognize those more you start to 254 00:20:36.759 --> 00:20:42.680 recognize that voice, you start to recognize how to make those shifts in order 255 00:20:42.839 --> 00:20:49.680 to come back to alignment, and developing that emotional intelligence is a part of 256 00:20:49.680 --> 00:20:52.920 it. It's it kind of it's complementary to the awareness. When you have 257 00:20:53.000 --> 00:20:56.279 that a high level of awareness, you see where your emotions are coming from, 258 00:20:56.400 --> 00:21:03.400 you see that they're driving you, and when you see when you can. 259 00:21:03.559 --> 00:21:07.400 Can you when you can recognize your emotion, because it all starts off 260 00:21:07.400 --> 00:21:15.000 with a sensation, before you blow up in a conversation, before you are 261 00:21:15.079 --> 00:21:22.039 just running on autopilot, there's always sensations moving through your body to signal that 262 00:21:22.240 --> 00:21:26.160 something is not in alignment. And when you can start to recognize those sensations 263 00:21:26.160 --> 00:21:30.160 in your body, you can start to recognize, okay, where did that 264 00:21:30.200 --> 00:21:36.200 sensation come from? Where did that sensation get triggered? What what triggered it? 265 00:21:36.839 --> 00:21:42.160 And then you can stop the build up before it gets to that explosive 266 00:21:42.279 --> 00:21:45.680 state. Right. So I I that that really comes with that, that 267 00:21:45.799 --> 00:21:51.319 connection of self, that that the awareness of what's going on inside of you 268 00:21:51.759 --> 00:21:57.519 and when you that's how you're able to determine whether the which voice is actually 269 00:21:57.519 --> 00:22:03.160 speaking to you, because we have like at least four voices that are going 270 00:22:03.200 --> 00:22:07.839 on. It's like the voices from the outside world and you've got your ego 271 00:22:07.079 --> 00:22:11.400 and you've got like your highest self and connection talking to you, and then 272 00:22:11.440 --> 00:22:17.000 you, you know all this other we also pick up on wavelengths of all 273 00:22:17.119 --> 00:22:22.480 the emotion, because thoughts are energy and words are energy, so those also 274 00:22:22.640 --> 00:22:26.680 end up in our paradigms and we might not even that's a whole other world 275 00:22:26.720 --> 00:22:30.480 we could go into, but we're not not even necessarily thinking our own thoughts. 276 00:22:30.319 --> 00:22:33.119 Um. So. So there's so much to it, but but to 277 00:22:33.240 --> 00:22:37.480 be able to when you're in a space of alignment and when you can, 278 00:22:38.119 --> 00:22:45.640 when you know your intuition, you can navigate situations so much more profoundly. 279 00:22:45.079 --> 00:22:52.200 I'm just gonna give a little example. Um. So recently, as I've 280 00:22:52.240 --> 00:22:56.400 been building my business, you know, I've had little side jobs here and 281 00:22:56.440 --> 00:23:03.240 there, UM, just to to and I balance things out, and there 282 00:23:03.319 --> 00:23:07.799 was one job I was working that was just draining me like it was great 283 00:23:07.839 --> 00:23:11.440 money and I didn't have to work very many hours, so it was perfect. 284 00:23:12.559 --> 00:23:17.720 But I knew inside of me that it was taking up more of my 285 00:23:17.799 --> 00:23:22.799 mind and it was pulling me away from actually focusing on my my truth, 286 00:23:23.039 --> 00:23:26.440 my purpose, my business, and as much as I was still focusing on 287 00:23:26.480 --> 00:23:33.839 it, I was just so drained and dispersed. So I kept getting these 288 00:23:33.880 --> 00:23:37.319 signs of you need to leave that job and you need to go back on 289 00:23:37.359 --> 00:23:40.960 track and just focus, you need to just trust that the money is going 290 00:23:41.000 --> 00:23:45.480 to float, and I was like no, no, like no, I'm 291 00:23:45.519 --> 00:23:48.640 ignoring you. Shut up, like I need to do what I gotta do. 292 00:23:48.880 --> 00:23:52.640 And so I continued that job, but I was like going forty eight 293 00:23:52.640 --> 00:23:57.039 hours with no sleep and like driving, and so I was falling asleep at 294 00:23:57.039 --> 00:24:02.880 the wheel. And there was one time I was coming home, I was 295 00:24:02.920 --> 00:24:07.359 like seven, eight in the morning and I like woke up to my head 296 00:24:07.440 --> 00:24:11.759 bashing off the window and I was in the guardrail and I'm literally like I 297 00:24:11.799 --> 00:24:15.319 felt like I was on the Rim of my car and it's skidding along the 298 00:24:15.400 --> 00:24:21.000 highway and I have traffic flying past me that I'm like, if I try 299 00:24:21.039 --> 00:24:23.000 to cut across to get to the shoulder, like I'm in the Fast Lane, 300 00:24:23.000 --> 00:24:26.279 if I could try to get to the shoulder, I'm probably gonna be 301 00:24:26.359 --> 00:24:32.079 hit because nobody's gonna stop in time or to get around me. And so 302 00:24:32.119 --> 00:24:37.000 I just stopped mid where I was on the guardrail, half in the fast 303 00:24:37.079 --> 00:24:41.279 lane, half on the side, with my like with my mirror smashed. 304 00:24:41.319 --> 00:24:44.400 I'm on the Rim of my car. Instinctively I'm like, okay, I 305 00:24:44.440 --> 00:24:47.000 gotta change this tire. I'm like I gotta tire in the back. So 306 00:24:47.039 --> 00:24:48.799 I go out, I go to grab the tire. I go to change 307 00:24:48.799 --> 00:24:52.279 it, I go to Jack it up. I'm like uh, and I 308 00:24:52.640 --> 00:24:55.920 a flashback of when I had tried to Jack It up before my car rolled 309 00:24:55.960 --> 00:25:00.920 off of it, because those puny little Jack's Aren't that great, and so 310 00:25:00.000 --> 00:25:03.319 I didn't have anything to block it from rolling. So I was like okay, 311 00:25:03.319 --> 00:25:07.519 now what? So I was like I started waving somebody down. I'm 312 00:25:07.559 --> 00:25:11.240 like okay, like what's going on, like trying to get something, and 313 00:25:11.279 --> 00:25:14.279 everybody's looking at me, trying to dodge me, like what are you doing, 314 00:25:14.480 --> 00:25:18.160 like you're crazy, and I'm like just doing what I know to do. 315 00:25:18.440 --> 00:25:23.039 So all of a sudden this tow truck like cuts across everybody, pulls 316 00:25:23.119 --> 00:25:27.240 up. I start running to him. He Ring. I'm like I'm chained, 317 00:25:27.240 --> 00:25:32.799 like my tire blue, and he's like you're crazy, you're gonna kill 318 00:25:32.920 --> 00:25:34.880 yourself. Get in the car and get over. I'm like I'm on the 319 00:25:34.960 --> 00:25:38.000 rim. He's like I will cut off traffic for you, just get in 320 00:25:38.079 --> 00:25:42.079 your car and I was like so I throw the tire back in the trunk 321 00:25:42.079 --> 00:25:45.640 and throw the Jack Everything in the trunk. I like jump in. I 322 00:25:45.720 --> 00:25:49.920 started up and I'm like chugging, trying to like roll on this rim and 323 00:25:49.960 --> 00:25:55.200 I look back and I just see transports, cars dodging us right and so 324 00:25:55.240 --> 00:25:59.400 he goes and I like go in front of him and then he's waiting and 325 00:25:59.400 --> 00:26:00.799 then then he go was again, and I just like, Oh my God, 326 00:26:00.839 --> 00:26:07.200 we're gonna die. Like but I knew the whole way through the process 327 00:26:07.839 --> 00:26:11.359 that God was with me and this was happening for a reason, and if 328 00:26:11.359 --> 00:26:14.759 I had not known that, I would have freaked out and started panicking, 329 00:26:15.160 --> 00:26:18.720 but I was just automatically switching to the solution of like how am I getting 330 00:26:18.759 --> 00:26:22.079 myself out of this? What do I need to do? God, I 331 00:26:22.160 --> 00:26:26.839 understand there's a lesson here. I don't exactly know what it is right now, 332 00:26:26.119 --> 00:26:30.200 but get me out of this situation. And that's exactly what happened. 333 00:26:30.200 --> 00:26:33.960 To angels, like a transport was actually waving the tow truck guy down there. 334 00:26:34.119 --> 00:26:37.880 He was waiting for me on the side of the road. They both 335 00:26:37.319 --> 00:26:42.279 changed my tire. A COP pulled up, but investigating what's going on. 336 00:26:42.359 --> 00:26:45.759 I'm like, oh, like, my tire blue, and the guys like 337 00:26:45.799 --> 00:26:52.279 this girl's got bigger balls than I do and I a living. I'm just 338 00:26:52.440 --> 00:26:57.519 stupid and trying to have agate this situation, but at the same time it's 339 00:26:57.559 --> 00:27:03.480 like, because I had that no wing and and that what the whole reason 340 00:27:03.759 --> 00:27:07.200 was is. So after that, my tire didn't actually it wasn't just resolved. 341 00:27:07.240 --> 00:27:11.440 My actual control arm was dislocated. So as soon as I went to 342 00:27:11.480 --> 00:27:14.039 take off, I got pulled back to the side of the road again and 343 00:27:14.039 --> 00:27:18.720 I ended up having to get a toe. But long story Um into now 344 00:27:18.759 --> 00:27:25.599 a short little summary. I it was God taking away my car to be 345 00:27:25.720 --> 00:27:30.039 like you are not going you first of all, you need to slow down, 346 00:27:30.079 --> 00:27:33.000 you need to breathe, you need to realign, you need to refocus 347 00:27:33.759 --> 00:27:37.559 and you're not continuing this job because this is not in alignment with what you're 348 00:27:37.599 --> 00:27:42.279 trying to do. So had I not had an higher level of emotional intelligence 349 00:27:42.279 --> 00:27:47.079 and awareness, that would never have been able to navigate that situation. 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Get it on Amazon today. I like 376 00:30:11.279 --> 00:30:15.480 to unwrap everything you just said. So let let's go. Let's go back 377 00:30:15.519 --> 00:30:21.519 a little bit. So the awareness pieces is it's it's it's highly key, 378 00:30:21.680 --> 00:30:23.440 right, and you can't have the emotional intelligence, but you have to have 379 00:30:23.480 --> 00:30:26.759 the awareness first. You have to you have to be aware of your body. 380 00:30:27.039 --> 00:30:30.559 So once you set that out and then you that's when you start begin 381 00:30:30.599 --> 00:30:34.799 to recognize the things that you were saying right. That the the these bursts 382 00:30:34.839 --> 00:30:38.519 of energies, in whatever fashion, whether it's negative or positive or whatever. 383 00:30:40.359 --> 00:30:42.119 You have to have the awareness say, Oh, look what I'm doing here, 384 00:30:42.200 --> 00:30:45.880 look what's going on, and and here's the beauty of these things. 385 00:30:47.000 --> 00:30:48.920 Right. Then we have these choices. We have these choices to make. 386 00:30:49.000 --> 00:30:53.799 Am I going to go down this road of negativity or am I going to 387 00:30:53.920 --> 00:31:00.720 choose to go this in this direction? and Um, those choice says, 388 00:31:00.799 --> 00:31:03.799 and I like how you the lessons. And people say this all the time 389 00:31:03.400 --> 00:31:07.839 in in, you know, inspirational memes and and everything in social media. 390 00:31:07.920 --> 00:31:14.400 But this idea that, Um, don't look at failure as a failure, 391 00:31:14.440 --> 00:31:17.400 to find a lesson and it becomes a win. And it's very true, 392 00:31:17.400 --> 00:31:22.440 though. But there's this piece as we go through life and we're we're going 393 00:31:22.480 --> 00:31:26.119 towards our goals, we're going for whatever ambition, and that inner voice does 394 00:31:26.200 --> 00:31:29.960 happen. It comes in and says go this way, because I called the 395 00:31:30.000 --> 00:31:34.039 gentle pool right. But we're so engulfed and whatever is going on in our 396 00:31:34.079 --> 00:31:37.079 life that everything is clouded. We can't hear that. And this is exactly 397 00:31:37.079 --> 00:31:40.920 what you were saying. Is like that. You can't hear that voice. 398 00:31:41.000 --> 00:31:45.960 Isn't it's not there. But when you become more consciously or more aware and 399 00:31:45.200 --> 00:31:49.559 more in tune with your or having that emotional intelligence, you begin to hear 400 00:31:49.720 --> 00:31:52.599 see the pools. It's not even here, as really it's. It's it's 401 00:31:52.640 --> 00:31:56.440 a feeling that you get and that's that internal voice. But I love how 402 00:31:56.480 --> 00:32:00.880 you said you have four different voices that are going on too, and and 403 00:32:00.960 --> 00:32:02.799 sometimes that clouds the judgment and what people are doing is like, Oh, 404 00:32:02.839 --> 00:32:07.960 don't go down that road, that there's that external you know, families, 405 00:32:07.039 --> 00:32:12.119 friends and those who are just have the best intentions for you, but but 406 00:32:12.200 --> 00:32:15.799 are not you. So they really shouldn't be giving this kind of advice. 407 00:32:15.880 --> 00:32:19.359 You just need to follow us in your heart. And then the internal programming 408 00:32:19.359 --> 00:32:22.960 that we have, you know, the stuff that society in general is telling 409 00:32:22.039 --> 00:32:25.880 us and all these things. But when we can again that awareness, when 410 00:32:25.920 --> 00:32:29.160 we can start to pull that out, okay, well, this voice is 411 00:32:29.200 --> 00:32:30.680 that, this voice is this, this voice is this. What's left is 412 00:32:30.680 --> 00:32:34.319 the internal piece, and then we can make a choice to go with that. 413 00:32:34.759 --> 00:32:37.559 So I love that part of your story, because we unfold this whole 414 00:32:37.640 --> 00:32:39.319 thing. And then there's this piece, though, that when you ignore that, 415 00:32:39.319 --> 00:32:43.960 that inner voice, there are lessons that we have to go through in 416 00:32:44.000 --> 00:32:46.079 life, right, we just have to go through them, we have to 417 00:32:46.160 --> 00:32:52.240 learn them, and we'll keep going through that study because we're in we're in 418 00:32:52.279 --> 00:32:53.480 the school of life here, so we'll keep going through that class, if 419 00:32:53.480 --> 00:32:59.279 you will, over and over and over and over until we passed the lesson. 420 00:32:59.759 --> 00:33:01.759 And, and I hear this a lot in the stories, that the 421 00:33:01.960 --> 00:33:07.599 lessons sometimes or more often than not, becomes more, more intense, more 422 00:33:07.640 --> 00:33:12.200 intense, more intense, until it's like look, woman, I'm gonna Break 423 00:33:12.240 --> 00:33:15.920 Your car down the middle of traffic and you're about to learn this lesson. 424 00:33:15.039 --> 00:33:19.119 I don't care what it takes, you're about to learn this lesson. And 425 00:33:19.200 --> 00:33:22.440 sometimes that's how God, universe, no source, whatever you want to call 426 00:33:22.519 --> 00:33:27.480 it, sometimes that's how that works. It's like I want to help you, 427 00:33:27.480 --> 00:33:30.480 you're you're going in the right direction, right. We're going after our 428 00:33:30.559 --> 00:33:34.039 dreams. Were going after this thing, your purpose and who it is you're 429 00:33:34.079 --> 00:33:36.720 supposed to be, that higher person. You're going after that. I'M gonna 430 00:33:36.960 --> 00:33:39.400 help you get there. Listen to me, and that that means I have 431 00:33:39.440 --> 00:33:43.119 to yell at you. Then I'm gonna have to yell at you when we 432 00:33:43.160 --> 00:33:45.680 don't get those yellings, sometimes as if we're not in that for progression. 433 00:33:45.720 --> 00:33:49.599 So I love how you're you're kind of showing this in the in the forward 434 00:33:49.599 --> 00:33:54.599 progression of your life, where you're still wanting to be in line with your 435 00:33:54.640 --> 00:33:59.480 purpose, your goal, and so that's when those lessons are going to become 436 00:33:59.480 --> 00:34:01.640 more intense, when you're not learning what the universe is trying to tell you. 437 00:34:01.960 --> 00:34:07.319 And so this is a really cool demonstration of the things that are going 438 00:34:07.400 --> 00:34:12.119 to come into play to get you to Um to that higher awareness. It's 439 00:34:12.159 --> 00:34:15.280 a constant journey, right. We're never gonna be well, I shouldn't say 440 00:34:15.280 --> 00:34:21.079 never, because we're going to continuously try to grow in that awareness until we 441 00:34:21.079 --> 00:34:23.320 can hit this this high version, and and it's just something that we should 442 00:34:23.320 --> 00:34:28.159 always chase. But so up to this point I'm loving your journey and where 443 00:34:28.199 --> 00:34:34.039 you're going and the realizations that you're having. And so now what? You 444 00:34:34.440 --> 00:34:37.480 don't have a car, you lost you don't have that job anywhere, obviously. 445 00:34:37.559 --> 00:34:43.000 So what what was next in the life of Ashley? Yeah, next 446 00:34:43.639 --> 00:34:52.239 actually so that actually right before that accident happened, my parents decided like they're 447 00:34:52.320 --> 00:34:57.599 moving out of the city, like moving a few hours away, and my 448 00:34:57.719 --> 00:35:02.639 dad knew how bad of a car I was driving. She was literally on 449 00:35:02.760 --> 00:35:07.719 the wits of her her the end of her life, and so two weeks 450 00:35:07.760 --> 00:35:13.519 prior to that accident my dad had said, look, I'm I'm retiring I'm 451 00:35:13.559 --> 00:35:16.480 getting a truck, like I'm going to give you my car, and so 452 00:35:16.760 --> 00:35:21.280 that was also a big part of the reason why I was very patient for 453 00:35:21.320 --> 00:35:23.599 that month was because it's like, okay, I don't have a car for 454 00:35:23.639 --> 00:35:27.559 a month, I can work with this, but I have one coming. 455 00:35:28.320 --> 00:35:34.519 And so it was also standard and I've always wanted to learn standards. So 456 00:35:34.719 --> 00:35:37.599 He, like my dad, would never teach me how to drive. Like 457 00:35:37.679 --> 00:35:42.960 him giving me a car was like the biggest thing in the world because like 458 00:35:43.039 --> 00:35:45.920 that is like that just showed how proud he was of me after like all 459 00:35:46.000 --> 00:35:52.360 the crap I've been putting them through chasing my dreams and before that destruction. 460 00:35:52.519 --> 00:35:57.039 So Um, you know, it really meant a lot for me to have 461 00:35:57.119 --> 00:36:04.559 that car and then to not even two weeks after I got that car, 462 00:36:06.320 --> 00:36:10.400 I was I went out out of town with some girlfriends for a birthday and 463 00:36:10.440 --> 00:36:15.800 we went to see went chasing waterfalls and me on our way back we stopped 464 00:36:15.800 --> 00:36:19.920 for ice cream and I come back to the car and somebody had like backed 465 00:36:19.960 --> 00:36:25.239 into it and I was like, I was very grateful because he waited around. 466 00:36:25.400 --> 00:36:29.280 He was like this little old man and he was really nice and we 467 00:36:29.320 --> 00:36:32.159 went through insurance. But then I get a call from insurance telling me that 468 00:36:32.679 --> 00:36:38.199 it wasn't Salvageable, that they needed they weren't going to fix it. It 469 00:36:38.280 --> 00:36:43.039 was the value of the car outweighed the value of the damage or the damage 470 00:36:43.039 --> 00:36:51.000 that read the value. And so now I was like what do I do? 471 00:36:51.199 --> 00:36:58.159 And so I had been manifesting a certain amount of money because I really 472 00:36:58.159 --> 00:37:00.599 wanted to get into t I r thinking and the results, which is, 473 00:37:01.119 --> 00:37:05.679 for those who don't know, it's an amazing program with John Tellarrico, Bob 474 00:37:05.719 --> 00:37:10.039 Proctor Um and Sandy Gallagher are the creators of it. And I just knew 475 00:37:10.239 --> 00:37:14.079 it's what I wanted, but I had no idea how to make that happen, 476 00:37:15.039 --> 00:37:21.760 because it's a high, high ticket course. And so when I was 477 00:37:21.800 --> 00:37:24.519 dealing with the insurance company, they were telling me like, we can give 478 00:37:24.599 --> 00:37:30.440 you your car and a little bit of money to go fix it elsewhere if 479 00:37:30.480 --> 00:37:36.440 you want to try and salvage it Um. But at that point in time 480 00:37:37.159 --> 00:37:40.159 I like, I didn't know how I was paying my bills. I had 481 00:37:42.039 --> 00:37:46.000 like two days to come up with three thousand dollars and I was like what 482 00:37:46.039 --> 00:37:52.760 am I doing? And and so the money. was like, okay, 483 00:37:52.800 --> 00:37:57.039 I could take the money, but that will only fix my car. What 484 00:37:57.159 --> 00:37:59.840 do I do for my bills? Like, how am I getting through? 485 00:38:00.800 --> 00:38:06.840 And so the other option they had was to pay me out a higher price. 486 00:38:07.320 --> 00:38:10.760 But then I'm left with no car and I really need a car, 487 00:38:12.719 --> 00:38:17.480 like my car is my my livelihood, you know, and I went a 488 00:38:17.519 --> 00:38:20.760 month without that was cool, but I'm like, I don't want to go 489 00:38:20.800 --> 00:38:24.679 any more time without a car. And so I'm like, and also, 490 00:38:24.800 --> 00:38:28.440 my dad just gave me this car. I don't want him to think I'm 491 00:38:28.440 --> 00:38:30.880 just gonna sell this car all of a sudden and take the money, like 492 00:38:30.920 --> 00:38:36.320 I just I didn't want to the controversy there. So I was like what 493 00:38:36.480 --> 00:38:37.880 do I do? And so I prayed on it and then all of a 494 00:38:37.880 --> 00:38:44.079 sudden, like I was reflecting and I was journaling about it and talking about, 495 00:38:44.159 --> 00:38:49.199 you know, my higher power and my you know God and and I 496 00:38:49.239 --> 00:38:52.159 was like I realized that the amount of money they were going to pay me 497 00:38:52.199 --> 00:38:57.960 out and take my car was the amount I'd been manifesting and I was like 498 00:39:00.079 --> 00:39:02.039 I started laughing because I'm like, okay, I get it, like I 499 00:39:02.119 --> 00:39:06.719 got it, but, like, you know, it helped me pay my 500 00:39:06.800 --> 00:39:08.400 rent and help me get into the program and now I'm left without a car. 501 00:39:08.480 --> 00:39:13.360 So I was just trusting. Okay, I'm trusting that it's going to 502 00:39:13.440 --> 00:39:15.639 show up again, and so I ended up getting myself in the program. 503 00:39:15.679 --> 00:39:19.360 I'm like, if I get myself in this program, there's no doubt about 504 00:39:19.400 --> 00:39:22.039 it, I'll get a car easy again. Like this program meant more to 505 00:39:22.119 --> 00:39:29.039 me because I know the a level of growth that I'm going to achieve if 506 00:39:29.079 --> 00:39:32.960 I just trust and have faith that I'm doing the right thing. And so 507 00:39:34.239 --> 00:39:37.920 it made a bit of controversy with my family, but I knew that I 508 00:39:37.000 --> 00:39:40.840 made the decision for me. I had to do what was best for me. 509 00:39:40.920 --> 00:39:44.920 I as much as like that. Was Hard for me to do that 510 00:39:45.199 --> 00:39:51.440 and and you know, damage a bit of the relationship. And you know, 511 00:39:52.239 --> 00:39:54.360 I knew that at the end of the day, I had to do 512 00:39:55.000 --> 00:40:00.639 what was right, what was I was being guided to do, and for 513 00:40:00.679 --> 00:40:04.480 me it was like a no, there was no doubt about that. I 514 00:40:04.519 --> 00:40:08.760 made that right decision. And you know, as soon as I I made 515 00:40:08.800 --> 00:40:15.199 the decision, you know, things just started flowing again, and so I'm 516 00:40:15.239 --> 00:40:20.320 just in this whole new level of appreciation and, you know, patience on, 517 00:40:20.599 --> 00:40:24.039 you know, just trusting the that divine is always there, that things 518 00:40:24.199 --> 00:40:29.800 always show up for me at the right time and and in the most crazy 519 00:40:29.840 --> 00:40:34.559 ways. I had never manifested that amount of money in one especially like one 520 00:40:34.639 --> 00:40:39.000 momp stone in my life and and that also broke down a whole another layer 521 00:40:39.760 --> 00:40:45.119 of my image of feeling like I I couldn't achieve that goal. So it's 522 00:40:45.119 --> 00:40:50.840 like there were so many lessons in that that just really brought me to a 523 00:40:50.960 --> 00:40:55.199 level of peace. And so as I've realigned and refocused with my goal, 524 00:40:57.719 --> 00:41:01.239 my life took a whole another turn in the direction of like, you know, 525 00:41:01.320 --> 00:41:05.280 sometimes you think you know where you're supposed to be, or you have 526 00:41:05.360 --> 00:41:07.960 a goal and a dream and it doesn't actually end up the way that you 527 00:41:08.039 --> 00:41:12.360 imagined it, but it's like so much better, and I feel like that's 528 00:41:12.400 --> 00:41:15.760 exactly what's happening to me. Like I've been building a business with my best 529 00:41:15.840 --> 00:41:19.920 friend and it's been an amazing journey. We've been, you know, coaching 530 00:41:19.920 --> 00:41:24.880 other women who have been impacted by abuse in trauma and who are just like 531 00:41:25.000 --> 00:41:28.920 ready to take control over their lives, and we've been doing that for a 532 00:41:28.960 --> 00:41:34.119 few years now and just like even that whole business, like all of our 533 00:41:34.159 --> 00:41:38.800 partnerships, were sponsored or or like collaborations, like our whole business ran off 534 00:41:38.840 --> 00:41:44.760 of partnership and collaboration. We didn't even really invest, uh, like more 535 00:41:44.800 --> 00:41:47.679 than a couple of thousand dollars to to to take it anywhere. And so 536 00:41:47.760 --> 00:41:52.159 that was a huge blessing. But we've also become one. And so we're 537 00:41:52.159 --> 00:41:57.000 in this new space where we're starting to take on a little bit of our 538 00:41:57.039 --> 00:42:00.440 own journey on the side, which is incredible because it's allowing us to find 539 00:42:00.599 --> 00:42:06.039 our true power and our true strength and who we are, not just who 540 00:42:06.039 --> 00:42:09.519 we are together. And so, you know, I've been in some incredible 541 00:42:09.639 --> 00:42:15.679 works of of a project that I've been feeling like my whole life has literally 542 00:42:15.719 --> 00:42:23.199 aligned me to this, from my destructive days to the years and years of 543 00:42:23.280 --> 00:42:30.400 growth I have, it's been preparing me for this particular endeavor that I'm about 544 00:42:30.480 --> 00:42:35.760 to uh, step fully into. So I'm really excited about about that as 545 00:42:35.800 --> 00:42:39.599 well. So life is just it's just never a dull moment. I can 546 00:42:39.639 --> 00:42:45.280 say that like, especially when you tap into that higher awareness and intelligence. 547 00:42:45.320 --> 00:42:50.079 It's like, because you realize you have more control over your life and you 548 00:42:50.119 --> 00:42:54.480 start to take the wheel of your life and and drive it in a way 549 00:42:54.519 --> 00:42:59.960 where we're not in full control. We can't, you know, determine what's 550 00:43:00.079 --> 00:43:01.840 thrown at us, we can't determine how things are going to turn out, 551 00:43:02.280 --> 00:43:06.639 but we can control how we move through things, and I think that's the 552 00:43:06.639 --> 00:43:09.840 most powerful tool that anybody can ever have in their life, is to know 553 00:43:09.880 --> 00:43:15.039 how to navigate through any situation that you're faced with Um and it doesn't mean 554 00:43:15.039 --> 00:43:17.119 that it's not going to be ugly, it doesn't mean that it's going to 555 00:43:17.199 --> 00:43:23.800 be all rainbows and sunshine, but it it definitely becomes easier moving through it 556 00:43:24.360 --> 00:43:30.360 because you just have this unwavering faith and confidence in yourself and in in your 557 00:43:30.440 --> 00:43:37.760 connection with source that moving through it. You just know that, like a 558 00:43:37.800 --> 00:43:42.599 lotus flower, it blooms out of mud every single day and you know it 559 00:43:43.000 --> 00:43:46.880 goes back down and it comes back out of that mud and it is literally 560 00:43:47.000 --> 00:43:51.719 like it doesn't matter what we go through, we learned to just bloom back 561 00:43:51.760 --> 00:44:00.119 out of that that gunk, that crap, the chip that life can serve 562 00:44:00.519 --> 00:44:07.840 serve to you at points and it's just it's it's it can be a much 563 00:44:07.880 --> 00:44:12.800 more beautiful and enjoyable journey. Like I would give anything to deal with the 564 00:44:12.880 --> 00:44:15.679 challenges that I'm facing now. And Trust me, like, internal battles are 565 00:44:15.719 --> 00:44:20.880 a real thing for everyone. You know, it doesn't matter the level you're 566 00:44:20.920 --> 00:44:22.639 at. We all deal with it, just in different ways. You just 567 00:44:22.679 --> 00:44:28.119 get better at learning how to deal with it, but you know it just 568 00:44:28.320 --> 00:44:31.159 I I can truly say I love the life that I live, regardless of 569 00:44:31.199 --> 00:44:39.039 the state I'm in, regardless of the Um the mud I'm trying to climb 570 00:44:39.039 --> 00:44:44.760 out of. I I literally love my life, like I would not give 571 00:44:44.800 --> 00:44:51.159 it for anything else, because I have a crazy life, like even when 572 00:44:51.159 --> 00:44:53.840 it's like breaking down on a highway, like I'm like, this ship doesn't 573 00:44:53.840 --> 00:44:58.559 just happen to anybody, like this is like out of a movie, like 574 00:45:00.760 --> 00:45:04.400 it is, it is, but this is what's beautiful, though, and 575 00:45:04.880 --> 00:45:07.079 let's because we're gonna start running out of time here really quick, but I 576 00:45:07.079 --> 00:45:10.679 want to get into your coaching, because this whole journey, right, everything 577 00:45:12.239 --> 00:45:15.360 that you've gone through and the and the awareness you have has brought you to 578 00:45:15.639 --> 00:45:19.840 your coaching aspect. And and so let's Let's talk about the coaching because I 579 00:45:19.920 --> 00:45:22.519 know you have a program that I want to get out there and then, 580 00:45:22.920 --> 00:45:27.519 Um, and let's make it quick, because I want to I want to 581 00:45:27.519 --> 00:45:31.360 get this project that you're working on because it's gonna it's it's pretty intense. 582 00:45:31.880 --> 00:45:37.400 Um, that goes in in mind with this coaching. So talk, talk 583 00:45:37.480 --> 00:45:39.679 about your uh, this this, but I think you said it was a 584 00:45:39.679 --> 00:45:44.719 three month program so talk about your program. Yeah. So, yeah, 585 00:45:44.719 --> 00:45:50.079 I'm super excited. Um, it's it's a three it's a three minute like, 586 00:45:50.079 --> 00:45:52.679 like you just said, it's a three month program and it's focused on 587 00:45:52.840 --> 00:45:59.639 really building like, as you said in the very beginning of this whole podcast, 588 00:45:59.760 --> 00:46:04.280 is at I truly believe that when you believe in yourself, when you 589 00:46:04.599 --> 00:46:12.679 just have this unshakable confidence within you, nothing can stop you. You know, 590 00:46:12.840 --> 00:46:15.599 it can put you out a little bit of a pause, but ultimately 591 00:46:15.599 --> 00:46:22.119 you're always gonna rise out of it that much more powerful. And so this 592 00:46:22.239 --> 00:46:28.480 course, this three month program, is to develop that unshakable confidence that you 593 00:46:28.519 --> 00:46:34.400 are just so in line with yourself, that you have built a high level 594 00:46:34.440 --> 00:46:38.280 of awareness and emotional intelligence that as you go through life, it doesn't matter 595 00:46:38.320 --> 00:46:44.239 if in your relationships, in your career, in your day to day life, 596 00:46:44.599 --> 00:46:49.440 in any area of your life, confidence is key right, having a 597 00:46:49.639 --> 00:46:52.440 trust in knowing that, like you don't have to be religious, you don't 598 00:46:52.440 --> 00:46:57.000 have to be spiritual, but at the end of the day we are all 599 00:46:57.320 --> 00:47:02.760 there is a higher power that does um serve us and that has created us. 600 00:47:02.800 --> 00:47:08.320 So when you can just trust that there is a force working for you 601 00:47:08.559 --> 00:47:15.360 rather than against you, it just allows you to trust the process. And 602 00:47:15.400 --> 00:47:20.760 so in this course it's really about building that unshakable confidence, developing an unwavering 603 00:47:20.880 --> 00:47:27.880 faith and really coming back into your alignment, learning about yourself, coming in 604 00:47:28.039 --> 00:47:31.760 tune with what makes you you, you know, really coming like when we 605 00:47:31.760 --> 00:47:36.840 were children, that is our pure essence or pure energy, and we've just 606 00:47:36.920 --> 00:47:40.760 been shaped along the way. And it's about really releasing the barriers, the 607 00:47:40.840 --> 00:47:46.320 walls, all the limiting beliefs that are blocking you from truly living into your 608 00:47:46.360 --> 00:47:51.559 confidence and into your truth Um, so that you can truly live a life 609 00:47:51.559 --> 00:47:54.760 by design, live a life that you love and and be the creator, 610 00:47:54.880 --> 00:47:58.840 or co Creator, I guess, in some sense, because you don't always 611 00:47:58.840 --> 00:48:02.320 have a full control um, but to really be the one writing your story 612 00:48:02.519 --> 00:48:07.639 and not feeling like things are just happening to you, but actually seeing how 613 00:48:07.679 --> 00:48:10.719 they're happening for you, because it's all perspective right. It's it's literally shifting 614 00:48:10.719 --> 00:48:15.239 your perspective to see that it's happening for you, finding the beauty in everything, 615 00:48:15.320 --> 00:48:19.639 finding the lessons and extracting and so in this course, I teach you 616 00:48:19.920 --> 00:48:22.599 and provide you with the tools, the insights. I've, you know, 617 00:48:22.639 --> 00:48:28.559 studied under the world some of the world's most renowned leaders in the industries. 618 00:48:29.159 --> 00:48:34.119 Um, that you know that have been my, Um, reason for getting 619 00:48:34.159 --> 00:48:37.519 to the level that I'm at and continuing to grow too. So it's it's 620 00:48:37.559 --> 00:48:40.960 just a matter of like, what tools do you have in your tool belt 621 00:48:42.000 --> 00:48:45.119 and being able to utilize them whenever you need in any given situation. It's 622 00:48:45.119 --> 00:48:49.199 like we already have it all within you, but I'm having I'm teaching you 623 00:48:49.239 --> 00:48:52.920 how to tap back into your truth. Um. So it's really these are 624 00:48:52.960 --> 00:48:58.400 this is not a program for anybody. I am only taking a certain amount 625 00:48:58.440 --> 00:49:02.760 of people because these I also also for women's sorry, I should state that 626 00:49:02.920 --> 00:49:07.679 story men, I love you, and this is, yes, universal, 627 00:49:07.079 --> 00:49:10.360 Um, but I really am just tapping into the ladies right now, at 628 00:49:10.440 --> 00:49:15.639 this point in my journey and really helping you build back your confidence so that 629 00:49:15.719 --> 00:49:20.480 you can be the best you, so you can show up for your man, 630 00:49:20.599 --> 00:49:23.239 so that you can trust your intuition, that you can be and live 631 00:49:23.239 --> 00:49:28.440 into your full potential in your career, into your purpose and in every area 632 00:49:28.480 --> 00:49:31.119 of your life. Um and and truly just come to peace with who you 633 00:49:31.159 --> 00:49:35.079 are, because when you know, I know what it's like to not love 634 00:49:35.119 --> 00:49:37.880 who you are, I know what it's like to, uh, you know, 635 00:49:37.199 --> 00:49:43.000 try to become everything but myself and how destructive that was, and and 636 00:49:43.079 --> 00:49:46.239 being able to come into my confidence more and more and into my truth more 637 00:49:46.280 --> 00:49:50.920 and more, I just see how much life is so magical, like it 638 00:49:51.079 --> 00:49:55.239 really is, Um and Um. Yeah, so it's for just, you 639 00:49:55.239 --> 00:49:59.840 know, women who are ready to take that action, who are committed to 640 00:50:00.079 --> 00:50:02.199 just taking that leap, just like I did. I I chose to give 641 00:50:02.280 --> 00:50:07.400 up my car, I chose to sat and make huge sacrifices in my life 642 00:50:07.719 --> 00:50:12.480 to get to where I am. And nothing good doesn't always come without sacrifice. 643 00:50:12.559 --> 00:50:16.679 It doesn't come without the work and putting that effort and energy into shaping 644 00:50:16.760 --> 00:50:20.840 who you truly want to be, because, you know, we can be 645 00:50:20.920 --> 00:50:24.679 handed things on a on a silver plate, you know, but we're not 646 00:50:24.719 --> 00:50:29.719 going to appreciate it as much as if we worked to really get there. 647 00:50:30.639 --> 00:50:37.519 Yeah, and Um, so I love actually the death like we we don't 648 00:50:37.519 --> 00:50:42.440 know. We feed our energy feeds off of each other just immensely. So 649 00:50:42.519 --> 00:50:46.320 every time we have conversations, it's just it. It's very powerful and I 650 00:50:46.679 --> 00:50:52.039 so I can attest to who who you are, but well, not. 651 00:50:52.199 --> 00:50:54.760 But I mean there's but there's more. It's like, you know, but 652 00:50:54.840 --> 00:51:00.320 wait, there's more. Um. So that the program it's it's going to 653 00:51:00.360 --> 00:51:05.639 be powerful in of itself, but now you're establishing this one extra, extra, 654 00:51:05.719 --> 00:51:09.280 extra piece, Um, to go on top of that. So let's 655 00:51:09.360 --> 00:51:14.039 let's bring that out into the open. Yeah, so this is a secret 656 00:51:14.079 --> 00:51:17.199 sauce that I've been really working on, Um, you know, the through 657 00:51:17.239 --> 00:51:20.880 that I have two options, you know, for those who want to be 658 00:51:20.920 --> 00:51:24.679 a part of the three month program you are like more than welcome, like 659 00:51:24.760 --> 00:51:29.719 I I want you there, if you want this, I'm I'm here to 660 00:51:30.079 --> 00:51:35.159 just help you draw out your truth. There's also, uh, you know, 661 00:51:35.239 --> 00:51:39.320 a bonus for those who are who really want that full immersion, because 662 00:51:39.360 --> 00:51:45.519 when we are fully immersed in something, uh, it's easier to make those 663 00:51:45.519 --> 00:51:50.639 shifts, it's easier to break a lot of paradigms and at the end of 664 00:51:50.639 --> 00:51:54.039 the day, I love having fun, I love exploration, I love adventure. 665 00:51:54.239 --> 00:52:00.199 That is my life and I think that there's no better way but to 666 00:52:00.519 --> 00:52:04.519 you know, I'm taking only a select few people to Costa Rica with me 667 00:52:05.480 --> 00:52:10.559 at the Um at some point in the program we will be going on a 668 00:52:10.639 --> 00:52:22.719 on a full transformational destination, all inclusive retreat with, I'm I'm not even 669 00:52:22.760 --> 00:52:27.760 gonna tell you like the company that it's aligned with, because they're just incredible 670 00:52:28.079 --> 00:52:30.840 and I'm just I'm super excited for this opportunity. In the way that it's 671 00:52:30.880 --> 00:52:35.559 unfolding is just like something I've never imagined. And you know, I've been 672 00:52:36.239 --> 00:52:42.760 for the last like decade almost I have been being trained to run these retreats. 673 00:52:42.840 --> 00:52:49.239 So I'm really, really excited to Um, to to to have you 674 00:52:49.320 --> 00:52:52.760 joined me, because at the end of the day, Um, you know 675 00:52:52.920 --> 00:52:58.800 when we learned best by having fun. We learned, we retain information when 676 00:52:58.800 --> 00:53:00.840 we are having fun. And it's not just about the excursions. There is 677 00:53:00.880 --> 00:53:06.519 gonna be healing, there's gonna be workshops, there's gonna be dancing, there's 678 00:53:06.559 --> 00:53:09.960 gonna be Yoga, there's gonna be so much. I don't even want to 679 00:53:09.960 --> 00:53:13.719 tell you all the Jews because I don't want to ruin it, but it's 680 00:53:13.800 --> 00:53:17.159 just it's gonna be a life changing experience. So, like I said, 681 00:53:17.159 --> 00:53:21.639 there are two options. One, you can just join for the three months 682 00:53:21.679 --> 00:53:24.039 and, Um, you know, we'll have, um, a whole program 683 00:53:24.079 --> 00:53:28.480 laid out for you. Um. But then for those who want to join 684 00:53:28.519 --> 00:53:32.639 me in Costa Rica, Um, make sure you contact me, Dm me 685 00:53:32.800 --> 00:53:37.840 whatever and uh, and we'll talk more about what that actually looks like. 686 00:53:38.679 --> 00:53:43.719 Uh, that's cool. And you just the next segment because we're getting on 687 00:53:43.800 --> 00:53:47.320 the final piece of time. So how can they contact you, Miss Ashley? 688 00:53:47.400 --> 00:53:51.000 Let them know how to do that and then we'll wrap it up. 689 00:53:51.719 --> 00:53:57.000 Yeah, so you can find me on socials, instagram Ashley underscore snowball. 690 00:53:57.719 --> 00:54:00.719 On facebook, it's under Ashley Nicole. UH, they said my last name 691 00:54:00.760 --> 00:54:05.480 was big, so I'm working on changing that. Um, it's actually a 692 00:54:05.519 --> 00:54:09.559 call on facebook. Um, you can contact Dr g over here Um, 693 00:54:09.559 --> 00:54:13.559 if you if you find that it's just easier for you, Um, and 694 00:54:13.599 --> 00:54:15.960 I'm sure he'll share that with you, no problem. Also, in my 695 00:54:16.079 --> 00:54:21.639 instagram. Um, I will be posting a link to my calendarly, Um, 696 00:54:21.679 --> 00:54:24.880 so you can actually book a direct call with me and we can chat 697 00:54:24.920 --> 00:54:30.559 more about opportunities and where you're at. I do have a bit of a 698 00:54:30.599 --> 00:54:35.039 qualifying Um conversation, just to make sure that we are the right fit for 699 00:54:35.079 --> 00:54:37.599 each other. Um. And, like I said, there's only a limited 700 00:54:37.599 --> 00:54:39.800 amount of spaces. So if you do want this, even if you're just 701 00:54:39.880 --> 00:54:43.599 not sure and you want to consider it, just have a call with me 702 00:54:43.639 --> 00:54:46.239 anyways. It doesn't there's no obligation, Um, but a conversation will at 703 00:54:46.320 --> 00:54:50.440 least give you more insight to whether it is you want to work with me, 704 00:54:50.519 --> 00:54:54.519 whether it is you are aligned with this program and this retreat and and 705 00:54:54.679 --> 00:54:59.599 yeah, like I said, it for a match that's perfect. And so 706 00:54:59.679 --> 00:55:01.840 sorry, guys, maybe one day or another, Ashley an I will team 707 00:55:01.920 --> 00:55:06.599 up and we can do men and women. So that would be that would 708 00:55:06.599 --> 00:55:08.880 be an extreme thing. So maybe that's something we consider at some point. 709 00:55:08.880 --> 00:55:13.039 But this is just for women, Um. But it's okay, right, 710 00:55:13.079 --> 00:55:17.320 because even when when each of us grow internally, anybody that we're in a 711 00:55:17.360 --> 00:55:22.960 relationship with, they will grow as well. Um. It's it's just universal. 712 00:55:22.000 --> 00:55:24.199 It's just the way it's gonna be. Ashley, I want to thank 713 00:55:24.239 --> 00:55:29.119 you so much for taking the time come on and tell your story. It's 714 00:55:29.559 --> 00:55:34.599 just amazing, beautiful transformation that you have and and people you. I mean 715 00:55:34.679 --> 00:55:37.440 you have to reach out to Ashley just to have the conversation with her when 716 00:55:37.480 --> 00:55:40.079 you get on the phone or you get on a zoom or whatever that looks 717 00:55:40.079 --> 00:55:45.960 like. She's a very powerful person and, Um, I am so blessed 718 00:55:45.000 --> 00:55:51.159 to have been acquainted with her and our relationship is, you know, friends 719 00:55:51.159 --> 00:55:54.000 and and and professional just continues to grow because she's just so amazing. So, 720 00:55:54.440 --> 00:55:57.760 Um, I can't say enough about Ashley. Actually, thank you so 721 00:55:57.840 --> 00:56:00.199 much for taking the time to come on the show. Is Truly my pleasure 722 00:56:00.280 --> 00:56:04.599 and honor to be here with you. Uh, you know, I I 723 00:56:04.639 --> 00:56:08.719 just admire you, endure you so much. You're literally just a huge light 724 00:56:08.800 --> 00:56:13.559 in my life and thank you so much to everybody who's tuning in right now. 725 00:56:14.199 --> 00:56:16.880 We appreciate you and I hope that you've got exactly what you needed from 726 00:56:16.880 --> 00:56:21.599 this conversation, regardless if you reach out or not. Um, I know 727 00:56:21.679 --> 00:56:25.400 that things always align the way that they're meant too. That is very true, 728 00:56:25.440 --> 00:56:29.119 and with that, everybody, I I want to thank you all for 729 00:56:29.239 --> 00:56:35.599 constantly tuning in. Again, staying connected is really the one most powerful way 730 00:56:35.679 --> 00:56:38.920 to to make that transformation. So I appreciate all my listeners and Ashley, 731 00:56:39.079 --> 00:56:43.880 and with that, we'll be having another conversation very soon. Yes, sounds 732 00:56:43.880 --> 00:56:50.159 great. By everyone. Piece of love. Thanks for tuning in. If 733 00:56:50.199 --> 00:56:52.360 you've found value in this episode, the best thing you can do is to 734 00:56:52.360 --> 00:56:58.199 subscribe, rate or review this podcast. If you would like to further investigate 735 00:56:58.199 --> 00:57:01.199 how you can flip your mindset, feel free to contact me through my website 736 00:57:01.239 --> 00:57:07.119 at www dot garrett goggins dot com. Can't wait to catch you on the 737 00:57:07.159 --> 00:57:10.239 next episode. m