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Hey, Dr g here. Thank
you for listening to moving up stream without
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together. Hello everybody, welcome back
to another show of moving up stream without
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a paddle. I'm excited, crazy
excited for my guest that I have on
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today, Ashley Snowball Um. I
have many conversations with this, with this
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young woman, and she's such an
amazing person. She's a psyche resilient specialist
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who uses the world renowned teachings and
techniques to help resilient, ambitious women develop
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high level of self awareness and emotional
intelligence in order to build the unshakable confidence
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so that they can turn their pain
into power. She believes that when you
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you, when you believe in your
potential and moving alignment with a high level
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of self awareness and emotional intelligence,
you will achieve whatever it is you can
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conceive. Ashley is she's put in
the work right she's a product of the
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product. I think this is what
I love about her. Right so,
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she she has transformed her own life
of destructive relationships, addictions, sexual abuse
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and violence Um to living a life
on her terms, which consists of traveling,
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pursuing her music and training all her
dreams into reality. She is a
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certified life coach who has been trained
by, well trained by and study by
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some of the great, some of
the great, so Tony Robbins, uh
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Bob Proctor, Les Brown and more. She's just again, she's a product
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of the product and she's always trying
to evolve herself in order to better guide
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others to be the best versions and
live the best lives that they have.
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So I'm really excited to have this
conversation with Ashley and that is going to
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be coming up right after this.
Welcome to moving up stream. About a
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paddle, the podcast that helps develop
a mindset for success. I'm your host,
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Dr Garrett Coggins, but most people
call me Dr g. Now dedicated
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my life to helping others understand that
if you have the proper mindset, you
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can propel yourself up that proverbial stream
with no paddle needing. After constantly feeling
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like you're going against the flow,
but you're never happy with your results.
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It's really time to flip your mindset. If that's something that you're ready to
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do, you've come to the right
place. Now let's get to it.
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Hello, Ashley, Hello, Hi, thank you so much for having me.
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It is my pleasure. This is
gonna be a really fun conversation.
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I just know it in my soul, Um, because I think and I
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think there's parts of your story,
like we've talked many times, but I
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believe there's parts of your story that
I'm not even aware of. and Um,
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as I told you prior I like
to start out this the whole thing,
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just come out the gate with putting
the spotlight on you and having you,
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Um, really tell you know more
about what it is you do while
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you do it and how you got
there. Um. And so, if
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you don't mind, if you could
just take the mic and just fill us
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in on who Ashley is. Yeah, for sure. I definitely resonate with
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you so much and I just enjoy
our conversations more and more as we unfold
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and seeing that renality in so many
levels. So, my name is Ashley
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Snowball. I am a psyche,
resilient specialist, transformative speaker and coach.
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And Yeah, I don't even know
where to start. Um, life is
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a journey, that is for sure. And you know, one thing I
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can say is who I am now, I don't even recognize the person I
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used to be because things have changed
so much, so drastically and so quickly.
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And you know, I wasn't always
this confident, this bubbly, this
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you know. Well, I feel
like we've always have parts of it in
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us, like I've always been a
bubbly person, but I also had a
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lot of dark, dark emotion,
dark energy and just so lost within myself.
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And No, it wasn't until,
you know, a near death experience
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that really shook me and woke me
up to starting to realize who I am
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and my my potential. And you
know, if I was gonna take you
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all back on a little journey back
to, you know, when I was
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eighteen years old, and I may
look young, so that was like a
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decade ago, I was gonna say
uh Um, but yeah, I was
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in a really, really dark place. It was one of the darkest moments
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in my life and, you know, going through high school is, you
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know, as a teenager, I
feel like that's one of the hardest parts
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of our life because we're starting to
come into who we are. We don't
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know who we are. We're trying
to find our place in the world.
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We have all these opinions and perspectives
that are really surrounding us and we're just
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trying to navigate. And also the
hormones. Our bodies undergoing so many changes
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and it's a huge growth spirt in
our life and that was a point in
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time where, you know, I
I really struggled with my confidence, I
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really struggled to fit in. I
had been betrayed by so many of my
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closest friends and I just I lacked
a lot of self value, self worth,
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and I was easily susceptible to other
people's opinions and judgments in there,
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you know, the choices that they
were making. I was like, oh,
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that seems cool, like I want
to do that, and I always
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kind of followed my own path in
some regard, but it was because I
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was so eager to be loved and
gain acceptance. I did give in to
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certain certain pressures at points. And
so at this point I had already been
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in a few different abusive relationships and
they were they really just destroyed my me
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internally and just feeling like I was
the problem. You know, if if
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I didn't do these certain things,
if I wasn't, you know, this
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person that I thought I was,
that these things wouldn't happen to me,
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and I had recently just left a
relationship that was really toxic. I had
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also like ended up in jail and
like I just got out and like I
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was like literally like I was on
bail and just so lost and so confused,
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and I had, you know,
my mom was just so sick and
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tired of dealing with me. Like
I was constantly living on my own at
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this point, and then, you
know, she would take me back and
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then I would get kicked out and
it was just this cycle of destruction.
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And she told me, you know, act like I love you, but
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I can't do this anymore. You
need to get out as soon as you
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can, like you're only here until
you get enough money to move out.
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And then I ended up meeting this
man and I just like head over heels,
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he was a bad boy, he
was a leader. Everyone just listened
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to him. He could in its
space and I was just I had never
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felt the way I did about him
for anyone else. And you know,
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months had passed and we were getting
into a really serious relationship and then all
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of a sudden he asked me to
be a stripper, and for me that
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literally like I just felt like I
couldn't have hit rock bottom anymore, anymore
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Um, because it was like here's
this man that I'm in love with who
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sees me this way, and it
really confirmed a lot of the beliefs I
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had about myself, that I wasn't
valuable, that men only wanted me for
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sex, and that just put me
on a downward spiral. I ended up
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running away. I contacted a pimp
in Toronto and ended up pursuing that world.
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But I didn't do it with him
because I was like fuck you,
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like you broke my heart and I
could I knew he had too much power
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over me because I was in love
with him and that I knew that it
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would be really it would be an
even darker path if I chose to do
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it with him. So I ended
up pursuing it with somebody where I felt
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I had a little bit more control, at least in my eyes, my
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mind, and eventually it just it. You know, time passed and I
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just MHM, I hit a new
level of rock bottom, like the depths
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of the ocean, and at that
point I just spent a few days crying
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in my bed. I was in
a basement apartment. I literally like it
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was the most ghetto place I had
ever lived in, next to the closet
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I stayed in before, you know, and like I was in a pretty,
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like really dark time and I just
was like I can't do this anymore.
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And you know, but I didn't
know what else to do. I
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didn't know how to sustain my life
all, I didn't know how I was
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going to move forward. I didn't
believe that I was capable of anything else.
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So I spent a few days there
and eventually I pulled it together and
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I was I ended up putting together
a resume, I contacted an employment agency
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and just like got myself two jobs
and never looked back. And for me
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that was like a huge turning point. But at the same time, nothing
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internally changed, just my outward experience
changed. So sooner than later I ended
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up in another really abusive relationship that
don't get me wrong. We had so
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much fun, like I loved him. We traveled, we party, we
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had like an incredible time, but
it was when the dark was dark,
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it was hell and you know,
and I spent a couple of years with
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him and then it got to a
point where I ended up having a near
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death experience and and for me that
was the biggest turning point in my life
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because I knew the moment I fell
through a floor when I was building,
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I was on a construction site and
I had fallen through a floor and I
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just I couldn't move. I I
literally thought I was dying and I in
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that moment I just heard my grandfather's
voice and he had passed a long time
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ago, but, Um, you
know, just tell me everything's gonna be
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okay. And I just grasped those
words so quickly and just repeated that to
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myself over and over and over and
over again, is that everything's gonna be
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okay, everything's gonna be okay.
And you know, I ended up going
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to the hospital. I spent two
and a half months in the hospital.
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Had A year recovery, but I
knew that that was the game changer,
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that if I don't choose to see
myself differently, if I don't learn to
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love myself, then I'm going to
continue these patterns. I ended leaving my
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ex I had to move home with
my family, I lost my Condo,
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I had a broken body, uh
broken heart, uh a mind that was
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just self sabotaging constantly, and I
dedicated that year to change everything, that
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I was gonna run, dance,
jump out of that hospital and I was
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gonna be better than I had gone
in there. And that's exactly what happened.
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I ended up like like the rehabilitating
my body to the point where the
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doctors were like Whoa, like,
what is going on? Like I had
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set goals that were like I was
like, I'm gonna be out of here
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in three weeks, and they laughed
at me. And that's my goal.
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I didn't happen, but I was
determined to get better. Like I doubled
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my physio and all of my healing
practices. I just studied the greatest in
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the world of mindset and healing and
body soul alignment, mind body soul alignment,
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and I just I didn't look back
and I think that was what made
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me grow so much is that I
literally left everything behind and focused on what
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I truly wanted, and that was
healing in all aspects of that word.
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And from there I just continued to
grow and I ended up, Um,
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you know, in another country,
living in Asia, where I just took
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like after a year of just while
it was two years, at two and
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a half years. At that point
I was just like internally dug up so
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much, healed so much, changed
my life completely, and then I just
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set off for Asia. I was
like, I need to just go and
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be with all of the information I
just obtained, and so I lived there
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for almost a year and just connected
with the kids and a school that I
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had found just during some other travel
in my healing journey, and just spent
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the time getting to know myself and
and aligning with my intuition and and trusting
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my voice again, because here I
was undergoing so much development, listening to
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all these coaches, listening to all
these people telling me how to think,
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how to heal, how to grow, and then it was like, okay,
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but what's my voice? Where's my
voice? where? Where is my
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truth in all of this? And
so it gave me time to just be
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and to just connect with myself,
and I think that that's the most important
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part, is just finding ourselves,
our true voice, because we build up
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so many walls and so many layers
and and lenses and masks as we go
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through life to try to navigate and
survive that we end up losing sight of
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ourselves. And that's exactly what it
happened to me, is I had lost
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sight of who I was to the
point where I was ready to sell myself
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or sex in order to live,
because I didn't think I was capable of
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anything more like that is one of
the worst things a woman can do is
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to full like give away her body
and think that it is it's worthless,
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it's we are invaluable and there's no
amount of money that can buy us.
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There's no amount of money that can
tell us who we are or what we
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deserve and what we're worth. And
when I you know, I don't regret
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anything that I've been through because it
made me who I am, but I
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will never go back to who that
person was, um because I know that
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that was never me. This is
this a pause where you're you're taking a
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break here and you want me to
interject. Yeah, I just naturally felt
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like inclined to stop. I think
me and and and the few listeners that
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we have on right here are just
like engross in the story you right now.
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And, uh, well, I
think there's a there's a few very
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valuable points that we should bring out, and one I feel like a lot
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of people, when when we listen
most people who I have on the show
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and most people who have gone into
the work and and has done this transformation
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within themselves, it seems like they
always have to hit this rock bottom state
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first. And I know that was
true with my story, is true with
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just with many stories, and it
gets to this point where, you know,
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and I always like to say when
you're at that rock bottom place,
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like you were saying at the at
the ocean floor, there's no other place
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but to look up, like you
can't go down any further. And once
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people recognize that, but I want
to bring out that they don't have to
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hit the rock bottom spot first.
So let's start there, right. They
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don't have to get to that point. But we as humans, Um,
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you know, we have the programmings
that we have and and it's the self
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image that you have it yourself it
keeps taking you down, down, down,
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down until you can stop and shift. And I love the shift that
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you went through right and and you
started getting to the voices because you're like
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enough is enough. You started listening
to the voices of all these mentors.
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But you said something that I've never
actually heard someone say on the show before
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or with with clients or things like
that. Is what was my voice,
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because a lot of times we just
take on the voice of these people that
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are mentoring us, but we may
not realize it, but that also becomes
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our voice. We have to say
it with our story, with with who
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we are and back by our passion
and our purpose. So I love that
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you brought that out and said,
you know, where was mine and so
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with that, then, how did
you find your voice and what is your
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voice and what does that look like
for you? Yeah, so, yeah,
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great question. I definitely was that
person that always in the hard way
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for a very long time. And
you know, like you said, it
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doesn't have to be that way.
You know, we we have people that
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are always around us telling us,
you know, giving us advice, saying,
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like I've been through this, you
don't want to experience it, like
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learn from my mistakes and you know, sometimes we do have to experience things
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and learn things on our own.
But it's a there's a time where you
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have to realize, like, how
much are you going to allow yourself to
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suffer and continue to choose what you
know not to do just to experience it?
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Like there, it's not always worth
it. And so, yeah,
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I think it's so important to really
come back to our truth and to you
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know, we have our own inner
guide. We we have a a straight
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connection to our highest self and we
all have that. It's our soul on
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a level that we don't even know, and whatever that looks like for you,
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we all have that and you know
it's there's you always have that gut
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feeling before you do something, or
that urge to like go left, but
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you choose to go right. It's
like, but that first instinct, if
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you went left, you would have
avoided x, Y and Z, had
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you have listened to that initial instinct. And and especially like as a,
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you know, a woman who's experienced
a lot of trauma and abuse. Men
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Too, it doesn't just go one
way. We tend to stop trusting ourselves
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because we I feel like we always
end up in a really bad situation right,
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or the other person tells us we're
wrong. You know, we get
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told that we're you know, that's
not right, you're stupid. I wouldn't
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do that. And, like we
just we start to question our own self
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and we start to listen to everything
else but ourselves. And in order to
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come back to that truth, you
have to start to get to know yourself.
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And that's really why I say that
in order to live the life you
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want, in order to truly be
fulfilled, you have to have a develop
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a high level of self awareness and
emotional intelligence, because when you have a
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high level of awareness, you're able
to almost step outside of yourself and see
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how you're operating and why you're operating
the way that you're operating. And when
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you're able to do that, you
start to recognize those more you start to
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recognize that voice, you start to
recognize how to make those shifts in order
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to come back to alignment, and
developing that emotional intelligence is a part of
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it. It's it kind of it's
complementary to the awareness. When you have
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that a high level of awareness,
you see where your emotions are coming from,
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you see that they're driving you,
and when you see when you can.
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Can you when you can recognize your
emotion, because it all starts off
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with a sensation, before you blow
up in a conversation, before you are
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just running on autopilot, there's always
sensations moving through your body to signal that
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something is not in alignment. And
when you can start to recognize those sensations
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in your body, you can start
to recognize, okay, where did that
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sensation come from? Where did that
sensation get triggered? What what triggered it?
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And then you can stop the build
up before it gets to that explosive
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state. Right. So I I
that that really comes with that, that
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connection of self, that that the
awareness of what's going on inside of you
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and when you that's how you're able
to determine whether the which voice is actually
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speaking to you, because we have
like at least four voices that are going
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on. It's like the voices from
the outside world and you've got your ego
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and you've got like your highest self
and connection talking to you, and then
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you, you know all this other
we also pick up on wavelengths of all
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the emotion, because thoughts are energy
and words are energy, so those also
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end up in our paradigms and we
might not even that's a whole other world
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we could go into, but we're
not not even necessarily thinking our own thoughts.
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Um. So. So there's so
much to it, but but to
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be able to when you're in a
space of alignment and when you can,
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when you know your intuition, you
can navigate situations so much more profoundly.
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I'm just gonna give a little example. Um. So recently, as I've
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been building my business, you know, I've had little side jobs here and
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there, UM, just to to
and I balance things out, and there
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was one job I was working that
was just draining me like it was great
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money and I didn't have to work
very many hours, so it was perfect.
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But I knew inside of me that
it was taking up more of my
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mind and it was pulling me away
from actually focusing on my my truth,
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my purpose, my business, and
as much as I was still focusing on
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it, I was just so drained
and dispersed. So I kept getting these
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signs of you need to leave that
job and you need to go back on
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track and just focus, you need
to just trust that the money is going
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to float, and I was like
no, no, like no, I'm
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ignoring you. Shut up, like
I need to do what I gotta do.
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And so I continued that job,
but I was like going forty eight
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hours with no sleep and like driving, and so I was falling asleep at
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the wheel. And there was one
time I was coming home, I was
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like seven, eight in the morning
and I like woke up to my head
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bashing off the window and I was
in the guardrail and I'm literally like I
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felt like I was on the Rim
of my car and it's skidding along the
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highway and I have traffic flying past
me that I'm like, if I try
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to cut across to get to the
shoulder, like I'm in the Fast Lane,
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if I could try to get to
the shoulder, I'm probably gonna be
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hit because nobody's gonna stop in time
or to get around me. And so
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I just stopped mid where I was
on the guardrail, half in the fast
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lane, half on the side,
with my like with my mirror smashed.
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I'm on the Rim of my car. Instinctively I'm like, okay, I
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gotta change this tire. I'm like
I gotta tire in the back. So
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I go out, I go to
grab the tire. I go to change
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it, I go to Jack it
up. I'm like uh, and I
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a flashback of when I had tried
to Jack It up before my car rolled
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off of it, because those puny
little Jack's Aren't that great, and so
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I didn't have anything to block it
from rolling. So I was like okay,
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now what? So I was like
I started waving somebody down. I'm
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like okay, like what's going on, like trying to get something, and
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everybody's looking at me, trying to
dodge me, like what are you doing,
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like you're crazy, and I'm like
just doing what I know to do.
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So all of a sudden this tow
truck like cuts across everybody, pulls
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up. I start running to him. He Ring. I'm like I'm chained,
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like my tire blue, and he's
like you're crazy, you're gonna kill
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yourself. Get in the car and
get over. I'm like I'm on the
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rim. He's like I will cut
off traffic for you, just get in
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your car and I was like so
I throw the tire back in the trunk
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and throw the Jack Everything in the
trunk. I like jump in. I
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started up and I'm like chugging,
trying to like roll on this rim and
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I look back and I just see
transports, cars dodging us right and so
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he goes and I like go in
front of him and then he's waiting and
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then then he go was again,
and I just like, Oh my God,
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we're gonna die. Like but I
knew the whole way through the process
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that God was with me and this
was happening for a reason, and if
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I had not known that, I
would have freaked out and started panicking,
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but I was just automatically switching to
the solution of like how am I getting
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myself out of this? What do
I need to do? God, I
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understand there's a lesson here. I
don't exactly know what it is right now,
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but get me out of this situation. And that's exactly what happened.
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To angels, like a transport was
actually waving the tow truck guy down there.
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He was waiting for me on the
side of the road. They both
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changed my tire. A COP pulled
up, but investigating what's going on.
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I'm like, oh, like,
my tire blue, and the guys like
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this girl's got bigger balls than I
do and I a living. I'm just
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stupid and trying to have agate this
situation, but at the same time it's
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like, because I had that no
wing and and that what the whole reason
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was is. So after that,
my tire didn't actually it wasn't just resolved.
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My actual control arm was dislocated.
So as soon as I went to
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take off, I got pulled back
to the side of the road again and
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I ended up having to get a
toe. But long story Um into now
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a short little summary. I it
was God taking away my car to be
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like you are not going you first
of all, you need to slow down,
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you need to breathe, you need
to realign, you need to refocus
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and you're not continuing this job because
this is not in alignment with what you're
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trying to do. So had I
not had an higher level of emotional intelligence
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and awareness, that would never have
been able to navigate that situation. I
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had like no car for a whole
month. That I was like I didn't
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freak out at all. I just
trusted the process. I just knew that
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I don't need to know what's going
on, why this is happening, I
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just need to trust that. I'm
I extract the lessons, I'm moving forward
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and I'm gonna there's going to be
a solution that reveals itself, and you
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know that's I think it's so important
that in any situation, it doesn't matter
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what you're faced with, if you
have that high level level of emotional intelligence
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and awareness, you can navigate it. It doesn't mean that you're not going
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to break down like and cry or, you know, go through the mud
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for a little while, but you're
easily able to pull yourself back out of
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it and just observe yourself while you're
going through it, or reaching out to
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to unwrap everything you just said.
So let let's go. Let's go back
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a little bit. So the awareness
pieces is it's it's it's highly key,
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right, and you can't have the
emotional intelligence, but you have to have
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the awareness first. You have to
you have to be aware of your body.
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So once you set that out and
then you that's when you start begin
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to recognize the things that you were
saying right. That the the these bursts
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of energies, in whatever fashion,
whether it's negative or positive or whatever.
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You have to have the awareness say, Oh, look what I'm doing here,
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look what's going on, and and
here's the beauty of these things.
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Right. Then we have these choices. We have these choices to make.
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Am I going to go down this
road of negativity or am I going to
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choose to go this in this direction? and Um, those choice says,
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and I like how you the lessons. And people say this all the time
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in in, you know, inspirational
memes and and everything in social media.
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But this idea that, Um,
don't look at failure as a failure,
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to find a lesson and it becomes
a win. And it's very true,
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though. But there's this piece as
we go through life and we're we're going
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towards our goals, we're going for
whatever ambition, and that inner voice does
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happen. It comes in and says
go this way, because I called the
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gentle pool right. But we're so
engulfed and whatever is going on in our
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life that everything is clouded. We
can't hear that. And this is exactly
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what you were saying. Is like
that. You can't hear that voice.
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Isn't it's not there. But when
you become more consciously or more aware and
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more in tune with your or having
that emotional intelligence, you begin to hear
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see the pools. It's not even
here, as really it's. It's it's
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a feeling that you get and that's
that internal voice. But I love how
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you said you have four different voices
that are going on too, and and
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sometimes that clouds the judgment and what
people are doing is like, Oh,
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don't go down that road, that
there's that external you know, families,
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friends and those who are just have
the best intentions for you, but but
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are not you. So they really
shouldn't be giving this kind of advice.
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You just need to follow us in
your heart. And then the internal programming
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that we have, you know,
the stuff that society in general is telling
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us and all these things. But
when we can again that awareness, when
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we can start to pull that out, okay, well, this voice is
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that, this voice is this,
this voice is this. What's left is
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the internal piece, and then we
can make a choice to go with that.
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So I love that part of your
story, because we unfold this whole
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thing. And then there's this piece, though, that when you ignore that,
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that inner voice, there are lessons
that we have to go through in
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life, right, we just have
to go through them, we have to
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learn them, and we'll keep going
through that study because we're in we're in
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the school of life here, so
we'll keep going through that class, if
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you will, over and over and
over and over until we passed the lesson.
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And, and I hear this a
lot in the stories, that the
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lessons sometimes or more often than not, becomes more, more intense, more
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intense, more intense, until it's
like look, woman, I'm gonna Break
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Your car down the middle of traffic
and you're about to learn this lesson.
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I don't care what it takes,
you're about to learn this lesson. And
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sometimes that's how God, universe,
no source, whatever you want to call
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it, sometimes that's how that works. It's like I want to help you,
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you're you're going in the right direction, right. We're going after our
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dreams. Were going after this thing, your purpose and who it is you're
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supposed to be, that higher person. You're going after that. I'M gonna
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help you get there. Listen to
me, and that that means I have
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to yell at you. Then I'm
gonna have to yell at you when we
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don't get those yellings, sometimes as
if we're not in that for progression.
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So I love how you're you're kind
of showing this in the in the forward
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progression of your life, where you're
still wanting to be in line with your
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purpose, your goal, and so
that's when those lessons are going to become
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more intense, when you're not learning
what the universe is trying to tell you.
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And so this is a really cool
demonstration of the things that are going
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to come into play to get you
to Um to that higher awareness. It's
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a constant journey, right. We're
never gonna be well, I shouldn't say
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never, because we're going to continuously
try to grow in that awareness until we
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can hit this this high version,
and and it's just something that we should
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always chase. But so up to
this point I'm loving your journey and where
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you're going and the realizations that you're
having. And so now what? You
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don't have a car, you lost
you don't have that job anywhere, obviously.
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So what what was next in the
life of Ashley? Yeah, next
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actually so that actually right before that
accident happened, my parents decided like they're
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moving out of the city, like
moving a few hours away, and my
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dad knew how bad of a car
I was driving. She was literally on
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the wits of her her the end
of her life, and so two weeks
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prior to that accident my dad had
said, look, I'm I'm retiring I'm
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getting a truck, like I'm going
to give you my car, and so
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that was also a big part of
the reason why I was very patient for
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that month was because it's like,
okay, I don't have a car for
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a month, I can work with
this, but I have one coming.
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And so it was also standard and
I've always wanted to learn standards. So
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He, like my dad, would
never teach me how to drive. Like
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him giving me a car was like
the biggest thing in the world because like
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that is like that just showed how
proud he was of me after like all
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the crap I've been putting them through
chasing my dreams and before that destruction.
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So Um, you know, it
really meant a lot for me to have
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that car and then to not even
two weeks after I got that car,
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I was I went out out of
town with some girlfriends for a birthday and
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we went to see went chasing waterfalls
and me on our way back we stopped
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for ice cream and I come back
to the car and somebody had like backed
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into it and I was like,
I was very grateful because he waited around.
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He was like this little old man
and he was really nice and we
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went through insurance. But then I
get a call from insurance telling me that
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it wasn't Salvageable, that they needed
they weren't going to fix it. It
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was the value of the car outweighed
the value of the damage or the damage
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that read the value. And so
now I was like what do I do?
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And so I had been manifesting a
certain amount of money because I really
472
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wanted to get into t I r
thinking and the results, which is,
473
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for those who don't know, it's
an amazing program with John Tellarrico, Bob
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00:37:05.719 --> 00:37:10.039
Proctor Um and Sandy Gallagher are the
creators of it. And I just knew
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it's what I wanted, but I
had no idea how to make that happen,
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because it's a high, high ticket
course. And so when I was
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dealing with the insurance company, they
were telling me like, we can give
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you your car and a little bit
of money to go fix it elsewhere if
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you want to try and salvage it
Um. But at that point in time
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I like, I didn't know how
I was paying my bills. I had
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like two days to come up with
three thousand dollars and I was like what
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am I doing? And and so
the money. was like, okay,
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I could take the money, but
that will only fix my car. What
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do I do for my bills?
Like, how am I getting through?
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And so the other option they had
was to pay me out a higher price.
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But then I'm left with no car
and I really need a car,
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like my car is my my livelihood, you know, and I went a
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month without that was cool, but
I'm like, I don't want to go
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any more time without a car.
And so I'm like, and also,
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my dad just gave me this car. I don't want him to think I'm
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just gonna sell this car all of
a sudden and take the money, like
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I just I didn't want to the
controversy there. So I was like what
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do I do? And so I
prayed on it and then all of a
494
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sudden, like I was reflecting and
I was journaling about it and talking about,
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you know, my higher power and
my you know God and and I
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was like I realized that the amount
of money they were going to pay me
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out and take my car was the
amount I'd been manifesting and I was like
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I started laughing because I'm like,
okay, I get it, like I
499
00:39:02.119 --> 00:39:06.719
got it, but, like,
you know, it helped me pay my
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rent and help me get into the
program and now I'm left without a car.
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So I was just trusting. Okay, I'm trusting that it's going to
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show up again, and so I
ended up getting myself in the program.
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I'm like, if I get myself
in this program, there's no doubt about
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it, I'll get a car easy
again. Like this program meant more to
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me because I know the a level
of growth that I'm going to achieve if
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I just trust and have faith that
I'm doing the right thing. And so
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it made a bit of controversy with
my family, but I knew that I
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00:39:37.000 --> 00:39:40.840
made the decision for me. I
had to do what was best for me.
509
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I as much as like that.
Was Hard for me to do that
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and and you know, damage a
bit of the relationship. And you know,
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I knew that at the end of
the day, I had to do
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what was right, what was I
was being guided to do, and for
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me it was like a no,
there was no doubt about that. I
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made that right decision. And you
know, as soon as I I made
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the decision, you know, things
just started flowing again, and so I'm
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just in this whole new level of
appreciation and, you know, patience on,
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you know, just trusting the that
divine is always there, that things
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always show up for me at the
right time and and in the most crazy
519
00:40:29.840 --> 00:40:34.559
ways. I had never manifested that
amount of money in one especially like one
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momp stone in my life and and
that also broke down a whole another layer
521
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of my image of feeling like I
I couldn't achieve that goal. So it's
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like there were so many lessons in
that that just really brought me to a
523
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level of peace. And so as
I've realigned and refocused with my goal,
524
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my life took a whole another turn
in the direction of like, you know,
525
00:41:01.320 --> 00:41:05.280
sometimes you think you know where you're
supposed to be, or you have
526
00:41:05.360 --> 00:41:07.960
a goal and a dream and it
doesn't actually end up the way that you
527
00:41:08.039 --> 00:41:12.360
imagined it, but it's like so
much better, and I feel like that's
528
00:41:12.400 --> 00:41:15.760
exactly what's happening to me. Like
I've been building a business with my best
529
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friend and it's been an amazing journey. We've been, you know, coaching
530
00:41:19.920 --> 00:41:24.880
other women who have been impacted by
abuse in trauma and who are just like
531
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ready to take control over their lives, and we've been doing that for a
532
00:41:28.960 --> 00:41:34.119
few years now and just like even
that whole business, like all of our
533
00:41:34.159 --> 00:41:38.800
partnerships, were sponsored or or like
collaborations, like our whole business ran off
534
00:41:38.840 --> 00:41:44.760
of partnership and collaboration. We didn't
even really invest, uh, like more
535
00:41:44.800 --> 00:41:47.679
than a couple of thousand dollars to
to to take it anywhere. And so
536
00:41:47.760 --> 00:41:52.159
that was a huge blessing. But
we've also become one. And so we're
537
00:41:52.159 --> 00:41:57.000
in this new space where we're starting
to take on a little bit of our
538
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own journey on the side, which
is incredible because it's allowing us to find
539
00:42:00.599 --> 00:42:06.039
our true power and our true strength
and who we are, not just who
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we are together. And so,
you know, I've been in some incredible
541
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works of of a project that I've
been feeling like my whole life has literally
542
00:42:15.719 --> 00:42:23.199
aligned me to this, from my
destructive days to the years and years of
543
00:42:23.280 --> 00:42:30.400
growth I have, it's been preparing
me for this particular endeavor that I'm about
544
00:42:30.480 --> 00:42:35.760
to uh, step fully into.
So I'm really excited about about that as
545
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well. So life is just it's
just never a dull moment. I can
546
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say that like, especially when you
tap into that higher awareness and intelligence.
547
00:42:45.320 --> 00:42:50.079
It's like, because you realize you
have more control over your life and you
548
00:42:50.119 --> 00:42:54.480
start to take the wheel of your
life and and drive it in a way
549
00:42:54.519 --> 00:42:59.960
where we're not in full control.
We can't, you know, determine what's
550
00:43:00.079 --> 00:43:01.840
thrown at us, we can't determine
how things are going to turn out,
551
00:43:02.280 --> 00:43:06.639
but we can control how we move
through things, and I think that's the
552
00:43:06.639 --> 00:43:09.840
most powerful tool that anybody can ever
have in their life, is to know
553
00:43:09.880 --> 00:43:15.039
how to navigate through any situation that
you're faced with Um and it doesn't mean
554
00:43:15.039 --> 00:43:17.119
that it's not going to be ugly, it doesn't mean that it's going to
555
00:43:17.199 --> 00:43:23.800
be all rainbows and sunshine, but
it it definitely becomes easier moving through it
556
00:43:24.360 --> 00:43:30.360
because you just have this unwavering faith
and confidence in yourself and in in your
557
00:43:30.440 --> 00:43:37.760
connection with source that moving through it. You just know that, like a
558
00:43:37.800 --> 00:43:42.599
lotus flower, it blooms out of
mud every single day and you know it
559
00:43:43.000 --> 00:43:46.880
goes back down and it comes back
out of that mud and it is literally
560
00:43:47.000 --> 00:43:51.719
like it doesn't matter what we go
through, we learned to just bloom back
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00:43:51.760 --> 00:44:00.119
out of that that gunk, that
crap, the chip that life can serve
562
00:44:00.519 --> 00:44:07.840
serve to you at points and it's
just it's it's it can be a much
563
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more beautiful and enjoyable journey. Like
I would give anything to deal with the
564
00:44:12.880 --> 00:44:15.679
challenges that I'm facing now. And
Trust me, like, internal battles are
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00:44:15.719 --> 00:44:20.880
a real thing for everyone. You
know, it doesn't matter the level you're
566
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at. We all deal with it, just in different ways. You just
567
00:44:22.679 --> 00:44:28.119
get better at learning how to deal
with it, but you know it just
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00:44:28.320 --> 00:44:31.159
I I can truly say I love
the life that I live, regardless of
569
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the state I'm in, regardless of
the Um the mud I'm trying to climb
570
00:44:39.039 --> 00:44:44.760
out of. I I literally love
my life, like I would not give
571
00:44:44.800 --> 00:44:51.159
it for anything else, because I
have a crazy life, like even when
572
00:44:51.159 --> 00:44:53.840
it's like breaking down on a highway, like I'm like, this ship doesn't
573
00:44:53.840 --> 00:44:58.559
just happen to anybody, like this
is like out of a movie, like
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00:45:00.760 --> 00:45:04.400
it is, it is, but
this is what's beautiful, though, and
575
00:45:04.880 --> 00:45:07.079
let's because we're gonna start running out
of time here really quick, but I
576
00:45:07.079 --> 00:45:10.679
want to get into your coaching,
because this whole journey, right, everything
577
00:45:12.239 --> 00:45:15.360
that you've gone through and the and
the awareness you have has brought you to
578
00:45:15.639 --> 00:45:19.840
your coaching aspect. And and so
let's Let's talk about the coaching because I
579
00:45:19.920 --> 00:45:22.519
know you have a program that I
want to get out there and then,
580
00:45:22.920 --> 00:45:27.519
Um, and let's make it quick, because I want to I want to
581
00:45:27.519 --> 00:45:31.360
get this project that you're working on
because it's gonna it's it's pretty intense.
582
00:45:31.880 --> 00:45:37.400
Um, that goes in in mind
with this coaching. So talk, talk
583
00:45:37.480 --> 00:45:39.679
about your uh, this this,
but I think you said it was a
584
00:45:39.679 --> 00:45:44.719
three month program so talk about your
program. Yeah. So, yeah,
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00:45:44.719 --> 00:45:50.079
I'm super excited. Um, it's
it's a three it's a three minute like,
586
00:45:50.079 --> 00:45:52.679
like you just said, it's a
three month program and it's focused on
587
00:45:52.840 --> 00:45:59.639
really building like, as you said
in the very beginning of this whole podcast,
588
00:45:59.760 --> 00:46:04.280
is at I truly believe that when
you believe in yourself, when you
589
00:46:04.599 --> 00:46:12.679
just have this unshakable confidence within you, nothing can stop you. You know,
590
00:46:12.840 --> 00:46:15.599
it can put you out a little
bit of a pause, but ultimately
591
00:46:15.599 --> 00:46:22.119
you're always gonna rise out of it
that much more powerful. And so this
592
00:46:22.239 --> 00:46:28.480
course, this three month program,
is to develop that unshakable confidence that you
593
00:46:28.519 --> 00:46:34.400
are just so in line with yourself, that you have built a high level
594
00:46:34.440 --> 00:46:38.280
of awareness and emotional intelligence that as
you go through life, it doesn't matter
595
00:46:38.320 --> 00:46:44.239
if in your relationships, in your
career, in your day to day life,
596
00:46:44.599 --> 00:46:49.440
in any area of your life,
confidence is key right, having a
597
00:46:49.639 --> 00:46:52.440
trust in knowing that, like you
don't have to be religious, you don't
598
00:46:52.440 --> 00:46:57.000
have to be spiritual, but at
the end of the day we are all
599
00:46:57.320 --> 00:47:02.760
there is a higher power that does
um serve us and that has created us.
600
00:47:02.800 --> 00:47:08.320
So when you can just trust that
there is a force working for you
601
00:47:08.559 --> 00:47:15.360
rather than against you, it just
allows you to trust the process. And
602
00:47:15.400 --> 00:47:20.760
so in this course it's really about
building that unshakable confidence, developing an unwavering
603
00:47:20.880 --> 00:47:27.880
faith and really coming back into your
alignment, learning about yourself, coming in
604
00:47:28.039 --> 00:47:31.760
tune with what makes you you,
you know, really coming like when we
605
00:47:31.760 --> 00:47:36.840
were children, that is our pure
essence or pure energy, and we've just
606
00:47:36.920 --> 00:47:40.760
been shaped along the way. And
it's about really releasing the barriers, the
607
00:47:40.840 --> 00:47:46.320
walls, all the limiting beliefs that
are blocking you from truly living into your
608
00:47:46.360 --> 00:47:51.559
confidence and into your truth Um,
so that you can truly live a life
609
00:47:51.559 --> 00:47:54.760
by design, live a life that
you love and and be the creator,
610
00:47:54.880 --> 00:47:58.840
or co Creator, I guess,
in some sense, because you don't always
611
00:47:58.840 --> 00:48:02.320
have a full control um, but
to really be the one writing your story
612
00:48:02.519 --> 00:48:07.639
and not feeling like things are just
happening to you, but actually seeing how
613
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they're happening for you, because it's
all perspective right. It's it's literally shifting
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your perspective to see that it's happening
for you, finding the beauty in everything,
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finding the lessons and extracting and so
in this course, I teach you
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and provide you with the tools,
the insights. I've, you know,
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studied under the world some of the
world's most renowned leaders in the industries.
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Um, that you know that have
been my, Um, reason for getting
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to the level that I'm at and
continuing to grow too. So it's it's
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just a matter of like, what
tools do you have in your tool belt
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and being able to utilize them whenever
you need in any given situation. It's
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like we already have it all within
you, but I'm having I'm teaching you
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how to tap back into your truth. Um. So it's really these are
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this is not a program for anybody. I am only taking a certain amount
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of people because these I also also
for women's sorry, I should state that
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story men, I love you,
and this is, yes, universal,
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Um, but I really am just
tapping into the ladies right now, at
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this point in my journey and really
helping you build back your confidence so that
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you can be the best you,
so you can show up for your man,
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so that you can trust your intuition, that you can be and live
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into your full potential in your career, into your purpose and in every area
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of your life. Um and and
truly just come to peace with who you
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are, because when you know,
I know what it's like to not love
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who you are, I know what
it's like to, uh, you know,
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try to become everything but myself and
how destructive that was, and and
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being able to come into my confidence
more and more and into my truth more
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and more, I just see how
much life is so magical, like it
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really is, Um and Um.
Yeah, so it's for just, you
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know, women who are ready to
take that action, who are committed to
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just taking that leap, just like
I did. I I chose to give
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up my car, I chose to
sat and make huge sacrifices in my life
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to get to where I am.
And nothing good doesn't always come without sacrifice.
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It doesn't come without the work and
putting that effort and energy into shaping
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who you truly want to be,
because, you know, we can be
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handed things on a on a silver
plate, you know, but we're not
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going to appreciate it as much as
if we worked to really get there.
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Yeah, and Um, so I
love actually the death like we we don't
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know. We feed our energy feeds
off of each other just immensely. So
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every time we have conversations, it's
just it. It's very powerful and I
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so I can attest to who who
you are, but well, not.
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But I mean there's but there's more. It's like, you know, but
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wait, there's more. Um.
So that the program it's it's going to
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be powerful in of itself, but
now you're establishing this one extra, extra,
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extra piece, Um, to go
on top of that. So let's
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let's bring that out into the open. Yeah, so this is a secret
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sauce that I've been really working on, Um, you know, the through
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that I have two options, you
know, for those who want to be
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a part of the three month program
you are like more than welcome, like
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I I want you there, if
you want this, I'm I'm here to
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just help you draw out your truth. There's also, uh, you know,
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a bonus for those who are who
really want that full immersion, because
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when we are fully immersed in something, uh, it's easier to make those
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shifts, it's easier to break a
lot of paradigms and at the end of
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the day, I love having fun, I love exploration, I love adventure.
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That is my life and I think
that there's no better way but to
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you know, I'm taking only a
select few people to Costa Rica with me
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at the Um at some point in
the program we will be going on a
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on a full transformational destination, all
inclusive retreat with, I'm I'm not even
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gonna tell you like the company that
it's aligned with, because they're just incredible
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and I'm just I'm super excited for
this opportunity. In the way that it's
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unfolding is just like something I've never
imagined. And you know, I've been
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for the last like decade almost I
have been being trained to run these retreats.
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So I'm really, really excited to
Um, to to to have you
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joined me, because at the end
of the day, Um, you know
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when we learned best by having fun. We learned, we retain information when
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we are having fun. And it's
not just about the excursions. There is
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gonna be healing, there's gonna be
workshops, there's gonna be dancing, there's
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gonna be Yoga, there's gonna be
so much. I don't even want to
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tell you all the Jews because I
don't want to ruin it, but it's
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just it's gonna be a life changing
experience. So, like I said,
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there are two options. One,
you can just join for the three months
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and, Um, you know,
we'll have, um, a whole program
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laid out for you. Um.
But then for those who want to join
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me in Costa Rica, Um,
make sure you contact me, Dm me
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whatever and uh, and we'll talk
more about what that actually looks like.
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Uh, that's cool. And you
just the next segment because we're getting on
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the final piece of time. So
how can they contact you, Miss Ashley?
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Let them know how to do that
and then we'll wrap it up.
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Yeah, so you can find me
on socials, instagram Ashley underscore snowball.
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On facebook, it's under Ashley Nicole. UH, they said my last name
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was big, so I'm working on
changing that. Um, it's actually a
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call on facebook. Um, you
can contact Dr g over here Um,
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if you if you find that it's
just easier for you, Um, and
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I'm sure he'll share that with you, no problem. Also, in my
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instagram. Um, I will be
posting a link to my calendarly, Um,
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so you can actually book a direct
call with me and we can chat
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more about opportunities and where you're at. I do have a bit of a
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qualifying Um conversation, just to make
sure that we are the right fit for
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each other. Um. And,
like I said, there's only a limited
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amount of spaces. So if you
do want this, even if you're just
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not sure and you want to consider
it, just have a call with me
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anyways. It doesn't there's no obligation, Um, but a conversation will at
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least give you more insight to whether
it is you want to work with me,
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whether it is you are aligned with
this program and this retreat and and
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yeah, like I said, it
for a match that's perfect. And so
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sorry, guys, maybe one day
or another, Ashley an I will team
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up and we can do men and
women. So that would be that would
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be an extreme thing. So maybe
that's something we consider at some point.
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But this is just for women,
Um. But it's okay, right,
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because even when when each of us
grow internally, anybody that we're in a
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relationship with, they will grow as
well. Um. It's it's just universal.
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It's just the way it's gonna be. Ashley, I want to thank
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you so much for taking the time
come on and tell your story. It's
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just amazing, beautiful transformation that you
have and and people you. I mean
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you have to reach out to Ashley
just to have the conversation with her when
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you get on the phone or you
get on a zoom or whatever that looks
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like. She's a very powerful person
and, Um, I am so blessed
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to have been acquainted with her and
our relationship is, you know, friends
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and and and professional just continues to
grow because she's just so amazing. So,
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Um, I can't say enough about
Ashley. Actually, thank you so
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much for taking the time to come
on the show. Is Truly my pleasure
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and honor to be here with you. Uh, you know, I I
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just admire you, endure you so
much. You're literally just a huge light
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in my life and thank you so
much to everybody who's tuning in right now.
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We appreciate you and I hope that
you've got exactly what you needed from
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this conversation, regardless if you reach
out or not. Um, I know
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that things always align the way that
they're meant too. That is very true,
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and with that, everybody, I
I want to thank you all for
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constantly tuning in. Again, staying
connected is really the one most powerful way
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to to make that transformation. So
I appreciate all my listeners and Ashley,
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and with that, we'll be having
another conversation very soon. Yes, sounds
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great. By everyone. Piece of
love. Thanks for tuning in. If
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you've found value in this episode,
the best thing you can do is to
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subscribe, rate or review this podcast. If you would like to further investigate
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how you can flip your mindset,
feel free to contact me through my website
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at www dot garrett goggins dot com. Can't wait to catch you on the
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next episode. m